I can't get him out of my mind

[denise56]

I feel like this is utterly stupid but I really need some advice.

 

So, I met this guy online.. He seemed to be really nice and we had so much in common. We had been texting each other very often for about 2 months. He was always telling me cute things, he kept telling me how pretty I was, and that he likes me. He seemed quite interested in me.. He wanted to meet me and do stuff for me and so on. (We live in different countries and I 'm planning to visit there ) I jokingly flirted with him few times but he was kinda serious about that, I wasn't very interested at the time.. he understood that and moved on. We kept talking for weeks, he brought up the subject again and it made me a little uncomfortable so we moved on again. We started to text each other less frequently.. I was busy with finals and school stuff so maybe I b*tched a lot about it and bored him.. he doesn't really text me often.. I texted him once but couldn't hold the conversation. I think I got obsessed with him since he gave me all the attention and praised me. But he doesn't seem interested anymore. I know I suck. I'm pathetic. I was the one who rejected him and all but I constantly think/dream about him and can't get him out of my mind for some reason..

I don't know if I love him or that I'm just an attentionwh*re .. I thought I would move on but I can't ..

 

What should I do? Would it be too loser-ish to confess my thoughts to him? How can I move on?

[Kendahke]

Couldn't hurt to contact him and say what you said above. You'll be able to move on once this is settled one way or the other.

[Romeo November]

Let it go and focus on yourself. You miss the attention more than you miss the actual person. Go no contact and move on. If you proceed, you will only get more hurt.

[Kendahke]

if you know you'll torture yourself with "what ifs", then find out once and for all so you won't be torturing yourself with "what ifs".

 

If you know you won't, then let it go.

 

You know yourself best, not any of us.

[metrogirl]

He was someone to pass the time with. You wouldn't know him from Adam walking on the street so I think it's safe to assume that what you are missing is the daily routine you two had. You can have that with someone closer to you.

[chr8st8na]

Sounds like u just missed talking/venting to someone

[denise56]

Thank you guys for caring to reply!

I guess I just have to move on. Keeping myself busy does the trick.

I haven't had a real relationship with a guy for a long long time so I hopelessly fall for any guy who gives me attention. I'm hoping that I'll manage to get over it too.