DropToZero Posted December 6, 2004 Share Posted December 6, 2004 This is something I thought about posting, and now am for all guys mainly who need to understand. I keep seeing these posts about guys wanting to know 'does this girl like me, or should I tell her I like her?'. Guys need to read this and understand that girls have a different perspective on attraction. I can't take credit for this, but they took down the last post b/c of the web site, so I cant post it any longer. Guys, girls DON'T care what you FEEL for them, they only care what THEY FEEL. It doesnt matter how much you like her, it's not going to change her mind about you. You can't read a girl's thoughts, so don't try to figure out whether or not she likes you. She will let you know if she likes you, you just need to learn how to read these signs. Girls, if they are attracted to you, I have learned, that they like to 'figure it out' for themselves. That's why when a guys tells a girl he likes her, sometimes outta nowhere, she ends up avoiding him or telling him not to say it again. Think about it for yourself, what would you do if one of your friends (girl) came up to you and said she's liked you, always has, especially if you never thought of her in that way, wouldn't you feel kinda cornered....? This is the reason guys put up all these posts about 'why do girls like jerks', and why being a 'nice guy' doesnt work. Any person can be nice, anyone, a girl isn't going to like you just because you're nice to her, you have to learn to flirt, tease her, and if you don't know how you need to learn. This is why girls often 'fall' for guys, they are often asked 'why do you like him, or what made you like him', its feelings, thats why they usually can't explain them. If any girl has support or input on this...I welcome it. Quote Link to comment
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