acts12 Posted November 30, 2004 Share Posted November 30, 2004 Alright girls, do you find a guy more attractive if he is constantely surrounded by lots of other girls, or would that be more of a turn off? A lot of guys say it makes girls like a guy more when they see a guy that hops circles with a bunch of different girls. Link to comment
mysteryman Posted November 30, 2004 Share Posted November 30, 2004 I think it is.. What you cant have is what you want the most and if theres a lot of compettors they get interested.. lol know what i mean thanks mysteryman Link to comment
sisterlynch Posted November 30, 2004 Share Posted November 30, 2004 For me, I don't think I would like it that much, I like my guy to like me only!! But for some girls it seems to present a challenge that they enjoy to go out with a really popular guy. So everyone is different... Link to comment
ticklebug Posted November 30, 2004 Share Posted November 30, 2004 giggle snort laugh BWHAHAHAHAHAAAA! now wait a minute...you actually believe that???? c'mere I have a love potion to sell you, cheap...along with a bridge in the sahara desert. what attracts a girl to a guy is who HE is..not who the heck he is with. If you are having a hard time dating, you have to figure out what it is about your aproach, your look, your personality that may be the problem...not inserting yourself into a circle of girls. Girls aren't looking to "compete" for a man...they want a guy to like them for them - and be faithful, honest & caring. Quite possibly, if you surround yourself with girls all the time. you could get considered to be A) only a flirt b) possibly gay c) not interested in anything serious d) a guy who is just trying to attract attention to himself... Link to comment
sisterlynch Posted November 30, 2004 Share Posted November 30, 2004 Were you laughing at me?? I know that there are girls who like to go out with guys that are taken! I see it all the time. Maybe the girls who do it are insecure or not really into the whole dating scene, but it does happen... Link to comment
sasha12 Posted November 30, 2004 Share Posted November 30, 2004 Why would a girl want a guy that surrounded by a bunch of girls? I would be asking myself what kind of guy he was? not a very loyal one...I presume! Link to comment
acts12 Posted November 30, 2004 Author Share Posted November 30, 2004 I am in no way saying that i chill with lots of girls in order to get or make other girls jealous. I just like to talk to lots of different girls to just kind of "see whats on the menu" if you will. How else are you supposed to find the best one? I was only asking this question because a couple buddies of mine were talking about it and wondered if it would actually benefit you in the way of attracting other women as well as seeing what all is one the menu. Link to comment
acts12 Posted November 30, 2004 Author Share Posted November 30, 2004 Why would a girl want a guy that surrounded by a bunch of girls? I would be asking myself what kind of guy he was? not a very loyal one...I presume! What if he didnt have a girlfriend? He's tied to nobody correct. You cannot be loyal unless you have someone to be loyal to. verdad? Link to comment
xmrth Posted November 30, 2004 Share Posted November 30, 2004 I think it's a really big turn-off. I've always thought of guys who were surrounded by girls as "easy" and unfaithful (in relationship terms, of course). I know it's not true for all, but that's how I feel when I see a guy who is around girls alot. Link to comment
Katie1414 Posted November 30, 2004 Share Posted November 30, 2004 oh I hate when guys do that!! It just makes me think he's interested in them..and so I just move on.... Link to comment
Day_Walker Posted November 30, 2004 Share Posted November 30, 2004 It depends on the type of girl that is interested in him. Guys who are surrounded by females are usually seen as charming, spontaneous and other qualities that come off well in intial conversations. It has a lot to do with the girl, if she happens to like guys like that. Competition can also increase some girls interests (to know that other girls want him). As you can see from the women here most dont like that type of guy but there are also some women that do like that type of guy. Link to comment
Jimbo10 Posted December 1, 2004 Share Posted December 1, 2004 WOW hey This is good news. I have lots of friends who are dudes, but only a few who are girls. I always felt that was bad, and girls really like the guys who are already super good with girls, and have tons of girls who are friends. Well I like to hear good stuff like this. I never thought about it like that! Link to comment
San123 Posted December 1, 2004 Share Posted December 1, 2004 lol, its funny the difference in responces from guys and girls! No wonder they dont understand us very well! Link to comment
Cloud802 Posted December 1, 2004 Share Posted December 1, 2004 Blah, I'm not bragging but that's what usually happens to me, it took me three shots and an ldr to get a loyal girl who isn't just in it for the challenge. At least it was only three, I never want to get drunk, NEVER! Link to comment
StArLeTtENiGhTs Posted December 1, 2004 Share Posted December 1, 2004 yeah i am attracted to guy for who he is.. but i may be a bit skeptical to approach due to all the girls... so it could be a temporary turn off Link to comment
Drizown Posted December 1, 2004 Share Posted December 1, 2004 Lol typical guy comments to the ones that think we like it. No I personally don't it feels like we have competition and we get discouraged. Not all of us a are self confident and when we see you surrounded by pretty girls we feel as if we are no competition so we tend not to bother. Plus we get jealous and that never brings out the best in people Link to comment
chanceit Posted December 5, 2004 Share Posted December 5, 2004 As someone who has alot of girl mates.... I don't think it does put other girls off me even though some of my friends are very attractive. But equally i don't think having only a few girl mates makes any difference either. If someone's really bothered about the sex/attractiveness your friends are - are they the sort of person you want to be going out with? The thing is that it doesn't matter if i'm on my own with girl mates or with a mixed group or with some guy mates. Girls won't generally just walk up and chat to me - i've goto make that effort. Am i easy and unfaithful though because i hang out with girls? definalty not!!! I mean if a girl has a lot of guy mates does that make her easy or unfaithful - no!!! Link to comment
LostInaTrapOfMyOwn Posted December 7, 2004 Share Posted December 7, 2004 welll..I would have to say that I find it to be a turn-off in general, but it depends. The guy I am currently interested seems to have a lot of girl (space) friends (that's a very important space!! but anytime he talks about them he always disclaims it by saying like "she's really cool...not that I'd be interested in her or anything" which I think is really funny. In general though, probably a turn off if the girls are flirty with the guy... doesn't really matter though. Just make sure that you pay more, or a different type, of attention to the girl you like, compared to how you treat chicks that are just friends. Cuz how the hell else are we supposed to be able to tell? Link to comment
chanceit Posted December 7, 2004 Share Posted December 7, 2004 Yeah i guess - I mean it wasn't really my choice to end up with aload of girl (space) friends it just kinda happened and i'm not going to ditch my friends because some people might find it a "turn-off"!!! Cuz how the hell else are we supposed to be able to tell? Well its kinda different how you act with a friend to a girlfriend - i mean you wouldnd't hold hands with a friend... But i do know where you're coming from.... I have the same problem with girls - its all fun & games Link to comment
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