Cherry009 Posted July 8, 2013 Share Posted July 8, 2013 Hey people! Just wondering what the name is for someone who lacks understanding of what is acceptable and what isnt when interacting with other people, im sure there is a name for it?? I want to look it up as am interested in what it says about it. It is midnight here in the UK and my boss is messaging me about stuff to do with next week (stuff that can wait until the morning, or that can be put in an email, but she sends me messages on my phone at midnight!!! and also regularly sends me messages on the weekends and on my days off) Odd behaviour!!!! I just ignore it until i am back at work but i still get these messages a lot!!! Link to comment
mhowe Posted July 8, 2013 Share Posted July 8, 2013 Lack of boundaries. Socially inappropriate behavior. harassment. Link to comment
Cherry009 Posted July 8, 2013 Author Share Posted July 8, 2013 socially inappropriate sounds kind of right actually, to be honest i sometimes wonder if she is all there mentally lol Link to comment
annie24 Posted July 8, 2013 Share Posted July 8, 2013 in my line of work, that is totally normal. Link to comment
annie24 Posted July 8, 2013 Share Posted July 8, 2013 why don't you just put your phone on silent when you are sleeping? a lot of people work better at night, or if she has kids, she might not be able to send e-mails until after her kids go to bed. as long as she isn't demanding you get something done at 1 AM, why does it matter what time she emails? Link to comment
annie24 Posted July 8, 2013 Share Posted July 8, 2013 if she's sending text messages, just put your phone on silent when you are asleep. Link to comment
Lone She Wolf Posted July 8, 2013 Share Posted July 8, 2013 I would guess - Narcissitic Personality Disorder. Many people in power have this, but it's undiagnosed you can find out more here: link removed and link removed Link to comment
mhowe Posted July 8, 2013 Share Posted July 8, 2013 Tell her to use your work email , not your phone. Link to comment
kitkat620 Posted July 9, 2013 Share Posted July 9, 2013 Maybe she's the type of person that feels she should fill you in on what needs to be done the minute she remembers it so she won't risk forgetting to tell you at a later date or time. Link to comment
Cherry009 Posted July 9, 2013 Author Share Posted July 9, 2013 why don't you just put your phone on silent when you are sleeping? a lot of people work better at night, or if she has kids, she might not be able to send e-mails until after her kids go to bed. as long as she isn't demanding you get something done at 1 AM, why does it matter what time she emails? I always have my phone on silent when i am sleeping. I was still awake and was just going to bed when i got all her messages. We communicate through whatsapp and it drains my battery and internet usage loads, i have said before i prefer emailing. I just find the excessive messaging at all times of day and at wkends strange. Link to comment
Cherry009 Posted July 9, 2013 Author Share Posted July 9, 2013 Maybe she's the type of person that feels she should fill you in on what needs to be done the minute she remembers it so she won't risk forgetting to tell you at a later date or time. yeah i think you are right Link to comment
annie24 Posted July 9, 2013 Share Posted July 9, 2013 I always have my phone on silent when i am sleeping. I was still awake and was just going to bed when i got all her messages. We communicate through whatsapp and it drains my battery and internet usage loads, i have said before i prefer emailing. I just find the excessive messaging at all times of day and at wkends strange. tell her that you're having troubles with your whatsapp (true - it is draining your battery) so to please sent the messages to your work email. Link to comment
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