Mels Posted November 23, 2004 Share Posted November 23, 2004 I was one of those people who truly believed that if I was careful enough, I would fall in love and marry the first person that I ever dated seriously. I went on dates in high school, but only casually, and I never had a relationship with any of the guys. I usually ended it after two or three dates. Three and a half months ago I agreed to go out with a guy who I had always been attracted to. I let my guard down, and fell hard. When we first started dating he told me not to worry if he didn't say 'I love you' very soon because he had never said it to a girl before. He told me that he was only going to say to one girl and that would be the girl he would marry. He told me he loved me soon after. He was cute, funny, nice, sweet. Everything I wanted, and I fell completely in love with him. We spent almost every day together, talked every day, sent tons of text messages. We talked about getting married, and our future together. He told me I was the love of his life, he wanted to be with me forever, that I was beautiful. I ended up doing things with him that I always told myself I would wait til marriage to do. The biggest mistake of my life. He broke up with me two weeks ago with no warning. The night before he had talked to me about how many kids we were going to have. The night he broke up with me he told me that he didn't think he would ever get married. Now I'm left to deal with a broken heart and the guilt of losing my purity to someone who wasn't worth it. I got angry and sent him a text message with some really mean things in it. I tried to apologize and he wouldn't accept. He never wants to talk to me again. We only dated for three months, but I saw him every day. I spent all of my free time with him. He was my life for those three months. He told me all those things about marriage and loving me, it's really hard to let go of that. The first person I ever fell in love with, and he broke my heart into a million pieces. I don't know how I'm going to trust anyone like that again. Does anyone have any advice on getting over your first heartbreak? Quote Link to comment
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