Crazy world these days

[nexus532]

wow, the other day i read a form about a fourteen year old kid takling about having sex. I think thats a little young to be thinking about that. Personally i waited till i turned 18 to engage in sex. Find it to be no big deal, don't have to have it, but i still need it if you get my drift.

Still I think its getting crazy when such young people are doing things that may affect thier lives without the proper knowledge of whats going on.

 

What a crazy world we live in.

[ReadyorNot]

I waited till I was 19 years old and I had sex for the first time with the guy I had been with since I was 15.... (now ex ex)

 

It makes me crazy to hear about all the 14, 15 or 16 year olds having sex... even my current bf was only 16.. makes me crazy!!!

[jbutterfly2020]

I agree that younger people do not need to be having sex. Even though many of them will not believe us until they reach the 18+, if even then. Luckily, for me, at that age I was able to see the negative outcomes of having sex all around me. I still practice abstinence to this day because I know I am not ready for a baby or a disease.

 

But ay........I can not speak for or control the world.

[DBL]

I lost mine when I was 14. Best 2 seconds of my life.

 

I wouldn't take it back, most the girls I dated were about 14 or 15 when the had their cherry popped.

 

Before coming to this site I really didn't think there were that many virgins out there. I only met one, and it is not surprising she was single. She was a virgin,but yet she hated guys...or maybe she just hated me because I was banging her friend.

 

DBL

[San123]

I waited until I was 18... still with him. It makes me sad when I read about kids wanting to get sex tips!! Even though I'm just a few years older they seem so young!!

[confused chicky]

I am curently 17 years old and I am still a virgin. I find that ppl are having sex early these days, but it's just the way their generation was brought up i believe....When I was 5 years old I didn't watch MTV and see ppl dancing alost naked, but now a days, it's totally normal for most of the kids....I noticed this cuz i have lots of brothers and a sister, and the younger they are, the earlier they were exposed to sex and accepted the whole concept of wearing revealing cloths..(blablabla).

If I had to guess I'd say that the generations that are to come are gonna be just as"bad" or worst!( which I am litteraly afraid to witness!)

But thats just how i see it!

[jbutterfly2020]

Are you suggesting she was jealous because you were banging her friend? hmmm...

 

 

In high school. I had a long term boyfriend and luckily we were agreeable in the sex area of the relationship. I am not with him anymore but I do date other guys. I will admit that I havent had a serious boyfriend since. It is because I don't want sex to be some issue that we will fight about or that he will cheat on me. Not many guys that I meet understand why I won't sleep with them.

[seesun]

14 is too young,when I was that age,I just think about it.

[EmptySoul]

I am 15, and not a virgin. But, even if I was I think it is everyone's own choice. I mean, it really depends on a person's maturity level. I think if someone is going to have sex they need to think about it for a while, think about the consequenses, and should really know all the things that could happen. Every year it seems, more and more is becoming acceptable. Just like years ago, no one was having sex this young. Now, younger and younger people are trying it. It's just how the world is changing. (not really for the better.)

 

Empty

[nexus532]

Well thats why most nations are having a high raise in std's. Because kids are having sex at a younger age, there are more std's than everyone really knows, meaning knowone knows the exact number of different strands of bacteria or viriuses out there. you only have one body, treat it with respect and be smart about what you do.

[Amethyst]

What is *really* scary is that sex at a young age has become so 'accepted' that those kids (and, yes, I mean KIDS) think there is something wrong with them if they HAVEN'T had sex!

 

I read a question (on a different forum) from a TWELVE-YEAR-OLD who thought her life was over because she'd never had sex or even kissed a boy! I mean, my goodness, what happened to the thing we used to call a CHILDHOOD??

[EmptySoul]

Childhood is getting shorter and shorter. Soon, it will barely exist at all...

 

Empty

[VictorWard]

Having a childhood went out of style with the powdered wig.

Ok maybe not that long ago ...

[JonnyG]

It is disturbing these days how young some people are who are having sex. And even more disturbing how so many young people think that they have to lose their virginity at such a young age. There really is kiddy (and i really do stress the word "kiddy") sex happening everywhere now sick. Like the above post said, what happened to childhood?

 

I lost my virginity at 17, and I think I waited til the right age.

[PAdreamer]

I recognize that kids are engaging in sexual activities more and more now. I think it's ironic that our culture cries out and makes a huge fuss about it, but where do they think these kids are getting the idea in the first place? It's the adults who put the sexul content into the media. Who decided that sex sells? Adults. And yet they look at the younger generation and claim the kids were just born messed up, or that their parents didn't raise them right.

 

I don't want to see a 14 year old girl carrying around a baby, you know? But I would rather give an educated and honest answer to their question than leave them uninformed and still engaging in the activity. If they're gonna be doing it, I want them to know exactly what to expect.

[Cloud802]

This is something that has been an issue for quite a while now. There were reports of eight year olds learning about intimacy and engaging in it, there's even some parents who film their kids doing it. It's a sad and sick world we live in where liberal media actually has in influence on the children of today. I'm not saying that we should get rid of all the stuff on TV, what I am saying is that society should be more thoughtful about this.

 

Of course, that'll never happen, as said before we live in a sad and sick little world.

 

The only sexual experiance I have had is phone sex with my girlfriend, and I do love her. However, we sat down and talked about it and stressed the fact that we can wait for the actual sex come 18. Most kids like us can't have mature conversations like that with their significant other and they end up jumping right into it, triggering disasterous consequences.

[PAdreamer]

Are you SURE you're 15?!?!?! Just kidding, hehehe! But I must say, that is INCREDIBLY mature!!! You're a smart person.

[Cloud802]

Actually, no, I'm not sure about my age any more.

[xbox_modding_freak]

Lol yea its frightning...Some of my friend are like once i know agirl long enough were going to have sex maybe

 

For me i dont care about sex...WOWWW its sex whats so good about it...

 

Also kiddy sex is wrong because they probably dont even know what a condom is...If you absolutely must you need to use one otherwise your going flying outta the house Jaz outta fresh prince style...I read a question by someone to doctorann(a government site set up to help with issues) and one was asking for advice because these two twelve year old thought they were mature enough to have sex

 

Well i have nothing against gay people in the neext part but its like gay is still used as an offensive word due to people not being mature enough to accept other people are different...But im not sure...Again we got into a random conversation and my friend said "Gay people are some of the safest in the world" (safe in uk means kind and a good friend)

 

As for the age limit on sex

 

16 is ok here in the UK it's the legal age for sex as well as smoking

 

 

-XmF

[SaSaRai]

gosh, wher i live everyone i know has lost their virginity except my best friend lol . I lost mine when I was 13..... sometimes i regret it.. but sometiems I dont. doesnt bother me.

[_Lissa_]

yeah it is kind of scary... out of my 5 good friends from grade 8 and myself, only 2 of us (myself and one of my best friends) are still virgins, and we're in grade 12 now. the other four lost their's pretty much all around the same time... between grades 9-10 (14-16 years of age). one of which was not even in a relationship with the guy... and the rest have all broken up with the guys they lost it to... It makes me kind of sad to think about it sometimes... I definitely thought I knew those people better than I guess I did... at the moment I'm 17 (to be 18 in 5 months) in a long-term relationship, and I'm still not quite ready for sex. it's kind of sad when a lot of grade 12-13 guys are dating and sleeping with grade 9's as young as 13... what is this world coming too?...

[PAdreamer]

Everyone has to make their own decision about what is or is not right for them. I know that when I was younger, I thought I knew what was right. And in a way I did. I feel that making the decisions I made, even if they hurt me, still taught me valuable lessons. Sure, they were hard lessons, but sometimes people have to learn the hard way. I lost my virginity when I was 17. I was blinded by a lot of things, and I knew I was being pressured into it, but I convinced myself that it was entirely my choice. I regret it in a way now. But there are aspects of it that I've come to appreciate. It's wrong and it's right for me. In other words, my life became very complicated and intense when I moved into the realm of sexual activity.

 

Perhaps the problem isn't so much in the scenario, as it is in the way that the people involved handle it. Abortion, suicide, drugs.... hundreds and thousands of years ago, girls were getting married and having sex and popping out kids as soon as their bodies were capable of it. Society dictates. It isn't the act that is wrong so much as it is our society that labels it as wrong. The lack of education, and the lack of people accepting their responsibilities for their actions is the REAL problem.

[June4life]

I'm a virgin and proud!! I'm almost 18... heheeh

[nexus532]

Little background on me, I was prom king and captian of the football team, and i am still a virgin. I could of lost it long ago but i decided that i can wait for a girl that i know I love. Thx for your replies.

[marijo2480]

nexus532, you are one of the good few out there. I've only been with one person, and I'm 21. That relationship just ended and I stuck around as long as I did because of that one simple reason, he's been my one and only and I wanted to keep it that way. Now I've understood that you can't base a relationship just on that, as sad as it is. I would've died to have been married to my first. Oh well...now I will have to settle to having two partners (and that second will be the one I do marry). He, he! So back to the crazy world deal, I've gotten to the point where I'm scared to have children (someday). I would die to find out that my 12 year old daughter lost her virginity and doesn't see anything wrong with it. Kids nowadays are so exposed to "sex" it's not even funny! My 12 year old nephew probably knows more about sex than me. I caught him looking at a porno site not too long ago and I about died. I put a blocker on his computer to prevent from him getting into those sites. It's a depressing subject to think that at 12, 13, etc. year old kid thinks they know what they're doing! I think, in a way, it's the parents fault...lack of communication! If they controlled what their kids watched, etc. then you'd decrease the chances at least of something like this happening!

 

Marie