alright, I'm not exactly sure if I'm asking for advice, or just venting. My boyfriend and I have been together for 15 months now. we have an awsome relationship, except for one thing; the physical part. my boyfriend keeps bringing up the whole sex thing which I don't have a problem with. it's been a long time, and many people dating for very short periods of time are having sex, but we're not. he doesn't want to be one of those "put out, or get out" guys, but he's getting really frustrated and confused, as am I. it's not that I don't feel comfortable around him because I do. and it's not that I'm not ready for it, I love him very much and I want him to be my first. we talked and I told him, that I'm scared. he said he is too, but we can't let that get in the way. but I'm still kinda scared, because I don't know what to expect. I don't know how to overcome this! any advice would be greatly appreciated! thanks