What's Feels Worse for You?

[BlueKitten]

I wanted to take a quick poll and see what people's opinions are. Would you feel worse if...

 

1. Your ex began dating someone that looks like you

2. Your ex began dating someone who looks like the person she/he was with BEFORE you

 

And why the answer you chose?

[Iamstruggling]

My ex began dating someone with the same first name and initials as me does that count?

[jchstar]

Looks like me

[Lambert]

Probably #1 because I'd feel like they really weren't into me, I just fit the mold. I know some people have a true type physically and I guess if that's your thing.

 

I don't have a type physically... I tend to go for what's inside and I'd like to think the guys that like me, like me for me not cause I look like their type.

[buddha55]

if a guy is dating someone who looks like you, it's probably because you fit their "type" what they are attracted to. don't know if thats a bad thing.

[Boomshine]

I wouldn't care. Knowing how women's attraction works (or at least for my ex specifically), and how little the physical package matters in the grand scheme of things, it wouldn't bother me so much.

[Webbley]

She's currently dating someone exactly like her previous (before me). Feels pretty bad, like I was just a fling from the type she actually likes. Now I have insecurity that my personality just isn't attractive. I admit I wouldn't like it if she got with someone much like me though.

[stranger88]

Who cares, jesus christ.

[squirl]

Who cares, jesus christ.

 

Amen to that!

[Boomshine]

It was a simple question asked with no context towards snowbored or any situation they might possibly be in. There's nothing wrong with being inquisitive.