Aurelius44 Posted January 23, 2013 Share Posted January 23, 2013 So I defriended an ex on FB after she broke up with me to return to her ex. About 17 days have gone by of NC. I was thinking of writing her a note, but this morning I noticed, while typing her name into Fbook, that her profile does not appear. Nor does it appear when I log in as a different user. I've either been blocked *and* she's adjusted her privacy settings so only she can add people as friends and nobody can find her....or she's deleted her entire account. Hard to say which, as she was saying how much she missed me/loved me on NYE then two days later was back with the ex, which seemed kind of unstable. Mind you, I did nothing wrong while we were dating; she broke up with me; and while upset at the BU, I managed to wish her good luck to her and the ex (while declining the offer of staying friends). Strange. Maybe she did it to one-up me, to get back at me for removing her as a friend; maybe she's afraid I'll find her ex and rat her out (or that her ex will see Facebook stuff); maybe she dropped off the mental ledge and deleted her entire account. Link to comment
Heather Dawn Posted January 23, 2013 Share Posted January 23, 2013 Does it really matter? She has every right to block you. If you de-friended her, why do you care? Link to comment
metrogirl Posted January 23, 2013 Share Posted January 23, 2013 She's an ex and this is why you shouldn't be lurking on fb for an ex because if she did just delete her fb, it leaves you to wonder endlessly why she did it. You can't heal if she is constantly on your mind. Let it go. Link to comment
Huntress0527 Posted January 23, 2013 Share Posted January 23, 2013 Now you can move forward and never look back. Know that you are better off. Link to comment
happyfrank Posted January 23, 2013 Share Posted January 23, 2013 So I defriended an ex on FB after she broke up with me to return to her ex. let her live her life and you do the same. Good luck. Link to comment
pl3asehelp Posted January 23, 2013 Share Posted January 23, 2013 And? Really, don't waste time on an ex. Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted January 23, 2013 Share Posted January 23, 2013 Rather than putting this much thought and effort into her Facebook status, why not focus on the fact that she dumped you for her ex, and realize you deserve better? Link to comment
EssexMan Posted January 23, 2013 Share Posted January 23, 2013 Does it really matter? She has every right to block you. If you de-friended her, why do you care? ^^^^^ Exactly. There could be any number of reasons, and it might or might not be targeted at you. It's pointless speculating. If you really want to contact her (which I wouldn't advise after 17 days if you haven't been talking, but that's your call) you presumably have other ways of doing so. Link to comment
Aurelius44 Posted January 23, 2013 Author Share Posted January 23, 2013 Rather than putting this much thought and effort into her Facebook status, why not focus on the fact that she dumped you for your ex, and realize you deserve better? /\ Good response. Link to comment
tatsplat Posted January 23, 2013 Share Posted January 23, 2013 If you deleted her as a friend you did well. It will help you to move on. If she has blocked you maybe she wanted to get one up on you. But you should start trying to think about what you think and how you feel and not her. Because you can change how you think and feel but you have no control over her. Link to comment
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