Bizw Posted November 4, 2004 Share Posted November 4, 2004 My girlfriend and I had a five year relationship. We met when she was 16 and I was 18. We've grown and experianced so much through the years and I'm having a really diffucult time knowing how do deal with losing my girlfriend/ my best friend. I now it usaully doesnt happen when you meet so young but I truly thought we would get married and have envisioned doing so many times. Needless to say, I'm really scared about not having her by my side any longer, I'm also really disappointed that it's all over after all the energy put into our relationship all the day dreams of having a family together and traveling gone. She just broke up with me monday 10-1-04, over the past 3 days shes told me that shes wants to get back together 4 times and then went back on what she said the same day. Obviously shes confused. She's told me that she wants to be friends and that we're still going to hang out all the time, but she doesnt have the feelings for me as a boyfriend anymore. We'll I'm thinking that shes going to fade out of my life, and I'm going to be left with the same feelings. I'm still grasping to the hope of giving her space and letting her come back to me. Am I foolish to think she'll ever come back? Am I best just cutting of contact from her or being her friend and hoping she'll come back. I don't want to put myself through talking to her and having her mess with my emotions but I havent found the strength to just quit answering when she calls. I guess my real question is, from your experiance, has it ever paid to wait for someone you really cared about or once it's over is it usaully over for good. I know this isnt written the best but any words of advice would help me so much. Thanks for the help Quote Link to comment
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