Crazy boy friends bday coming up

[Lilliene]

Friends, I'm on NC for 21 days now with my boyfriend who does a dissappearing act every month or so and I used to call, chase and make up. This time I let him go. He n I work in the same vicinity. For the first few days he showed up and huffed n puffed and silently walked away. For the last four days I haven't seen him. Btw it's also typical of his sick mind games to try n act lost so I try to find him. His birthday is coming up on the 1st. Should I send him flowers or a birthday wish or let him be and continue with the ignoring treatment. Pl give me your thoughts. What works better?

[FrenchFries]

I wouldn't send him anything. You still consider him your bf?

[HeartGoesOn]

Should I send him flowers or a birthday wish or let him be and continue with the ignoring treatment. Pl give me your thoughts. What works better?

 

How about a "GPS?"

 

Seriously, Where do you see this going?

[Michele15]

Don't send him anything, he expects you will. Teach him a lesson. He messed up not you. If he wants you back he should work at it. Turn the tables and put the thrill of the chase back.

[stuka80]

why do you put up with him? Have some self respect and dump him.

[Michele15]

I can't understand why you would send him flowers? Shouldn't he be sending you flowers. ?