rach2418 Posted August 4, 2010 Share Posted August 4, 2010 Hi guys - just J is out at his Dad's so I'm googling my friends bored and found our old posts.... just to answer those asking how long we were apart - J and I split for about 7 months completely, we stayed in phone contact and met up occasionally but were both with other people. When I split up with my then boyfriend, we started seeing more and more of each other again and eventually got back together properly maybe 8 months after we split. Moved in together 6 months later... now married, about to celebrate our 5th wedding anniversary the day after tomorrow, with our two gorgeous kids, a boys that looks like Daddy and a girl that looks like Mummy fast asleep upstairs as I speak. Re-reading J's post - I second all of it, it's as true now as it was when I first started dating him 13 years ago.... Prou to be his wife, glad we braved out the difficult times and came out stronger for it the other side... Good luck to everyone else starting out on their own journeys - it might not be smooth but it's worth it... Rach xxx Link to comment
deanlanders Posted October 20, 2010 Share Posted October 20, 2010 That is come very good news my friend I hope the same happens with me and m ex Link to comment
TryingToWork Posted December 9, 2010 Share Posted December 9, 2010 @rach2418: just wondering how did u manage to find his post on this site in the first place? Kudos to the both of you, well done, it proves that fairytales do exist even in today dysfunctional world... Link to comment
michelle21689 Posted February 3, 2011 Share Posted February 3, 2011 Rach, your guys' story is so amazing. My first love broke up with me a week ago. We were together for 5 1/2 years but 2 1/2 years long distance. We've had such a wonderful relationship and I've always been there for him especially in the Army. He said his feelings some how changed and he has no idea why...everyone thinks its cuz of the Army and distance adding up together gradually. =( I know he loves me still..right now I can't tlak to him cuz I'm hurting too much and TRYING to move on! I'll be there if he needs me during his deployment but I will try to live my life, move on, keep in touch with him, and I will always love him. In the end I know I will be very happy with someone new or with him... I just can't wait till I can be extremely happy again.... LOVE this story Link to comment
faithful14 Posted March 13, 2011 Share Posted March 13, 2011 bumping this! great story! Link to comment
hopelost Posted November 5, 2011 Share Posted November 5, 2011 Bumping this story. Truly amazing. Link to comment
Autumnleaves Posted January 16, 2012 Share Posted January 16, 2012 wow great story. I wonder if anyone else has ran into their ex here on ENA? Link to comment
MrAurrora Posted September 12, 2012 Share Posted September 12, 2012 Giving this story the six-monthly bump it deserves. I hope oneday I can finish off my lonely heart posts with something just as successful. Link to comment
Hawkeye2424 Posted September 13, 2012 Share Posted September 13, 2012 I'm in the exact same situation. Me and my ex split after 3 years together and wanted to fix things. Then all the sudden he met someone else (within days) and in a week they were in love he says. It's now 4 weeks later and they're living together and talking marriage. Meanwhile I'm here crying and not eating or sleeping and thinking about him all the time. I just miss him and he moved on so fast. Anyway sorry but I feel your pain exactly and I'm sorry you're having to go thru it. It's agonizing at times and we wonder how to get past it but I'm staying strong and trying to move on as I hope you are able to!! Link to comment
arabhorseluvr Posted April 29, 2013 Share Posted April 29, 2013 Giving this story the six-monthly bump it deserves. I hope oneday I can finish off my lonely heart posts with something just as successful. Doing this, too. And I hope the same for myself and my ex. Link to comment
Stillhope Posted July 29, 2013 Share Posted July 29, 2013 How has this not been bumped for a few months?! Link to comment
Jayse Posted August 13, 2013 Share Posted August 13, 2013 Such an amazing mix of realistic advice and hope in this thread! Best of luck to you guys and everyone Link to comment
Aaron Hodges Posted January 22, 2014 Share Posted January 22, 2014 Just have to say this is an amazing story. Thank you for sharing it. I wish I could hope for the same between my ex and myself, but I think all hope is dead. But your story still brought tears to my eyes. I am so happy for you both Link to comment
maccerz Posted January 23, 2014 Share Posted January 23, 2014 Oh my god this has made me so happy... what beautiful story! Well done guys!! Link to comment
Maddie91x Posted September 15, 2017 Share Posted September 15, 2017 This. ❤ needs to be read by everyone! Link to comment
Woah93 Posted September 16, 2017 Share Posted September 16, 2017 This inspires me to not give up, heart warming. IF things are meant to be, they will... Link to comment
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