I already miss him so much. The worst part is, I can't even blame him.

[star554]

He laughed at me. I couldn't help but call him.. and he was with his friends. He's like "4 am, are you drunk". And everything I said, he repeated with a mocking tone and laughed... and I heard all his friends laugh too on the phone.

[BeeToo]

That is sooo immature, he's trying to sound superior, but really he's acting like a 15 year old. But boys take forever to grow up. Don't contact him again, he's enjoying this. Once you stop, he'll start wondering why you did.

[star554]

Thanks Bee, I'm not sure how to feel. It started off as such a clean break up too and now he's making things just so much worse. Ah well, more reason to not talk to him I guess.

[BeeToo]

Well, the other two break ups I went through, the same thing somewhat happened to me.

One ex and I used to go to the same school and he would be hugging and kissing these girls in front of me, he would be asking his friends to come say to me that he was over me (?!).

And another ex kept hitting on other girls via facebook, something he had NEVER done even before us dating.

Some guys can't handle a break up and have to make the ex feel bad about themselves. It's completely normal, just ignore it, he's really not worth you worries

[star554]

I know that but I have to still convince myself to believe it.

[BeeToo]

It's hard, I know. But for me in particular, it's easier to get over someone that shows their true colors after a BU. You thought you were with someone and they turn out to be someone else. This guy has showed you this. You miss the thought you have of him on your mind.

[star554]

He apologized on the phone. He said it was disrespectful and he's sorry. That's all we said... and I think we're gonna go back to parting ways. But it did make me feel a lot better.

[BeeToo]

That's great! At least he recognized what he did, now that you have this weight off of your shoulders I think it will be easier to move on!