Open Car Door for her?

[pl3asehelp]

You just contradicted yourself.

In any case, it is a nice thing to do for the person you are interested in and trying to win their affections.

 

Where?

 

Do you stop doing this once you've 'won someone's affections'? A woman in San Francisco would think you were from Iowa if you did this and though it might be nice, you'd look pretty nerdy and unattractive.

[camus154]

Where?

 

Do you stop doing this once you've 'won someone's affections'? A woman in San Francisco would think you were from Iowa if you did this and though it might be nice, you'd look pretty nerdy and unattractive.

 

That's funny--worrying about appearing nerdy and unattractive in San Francisco. Maybe you all aren't as progressive as you think

[pl3asehelp]

That's funny--worrying about appearing nerdy and unattractive in San Francisco. Maybe you all aren't as progressive as you think

 

If your idea of progress is opening car doors for able bodied people based on a gender stereotypes, that makes sense.

[Klokwurk]

Where?

 

Do you stop doing this once you've 'won someone's affections'? A woman in San Francisco would think you were from Iowa if you did this and though it might be nice, you'd look pretty nerdy and unattractive.

 

Aw man, come on, people do it around here, especially when it is raining and you are sharing an umbrella.

[Ms Darcy]

Why is there even a debate here? Do it if you want; don't if you don't want. But in my opinion it is small-minded to judge people for doing a nice gesture.

[pl3asehelp]

Why is there even a debate here? Do it if you want; don't if you don't want. But in my opinion it is small-minded to judge people for doing a nice gesture.

 

Or to judge them for not doing what you think is a nice gesture and they think is an outdated gender-stereotype.