TopFive Posted October 10, 2012 Share Posted October 10, 2012 Let me remind some of you of what happened a couple of weeks ago. I'm drunk on twitter and i see that my Ex's boyfriend (yes, they're together) tweets to my ex's friend and says, " esha called me sean roan cray cray". So i replied and said and spelled my name right. After that he tweeted, "She still wants you". I'm no fool and i can tell that this was a game, but i still played. Well anyway, there was some small subtweeting going on the next day and after that i was done with it. Mind you, this was TWO weeks ago. I haven't talked to or tweeted about my ex since i broke NC two months ago. I was doing okay until today when i was napping and someone kept calling me. I picked up and it was my exes Mother. She was asking what was going on because her daughter has been really upset for the past couple of days and she heard one of her conversations last night. She was saying that im a nice guy with a lot going on and i shouldnt be worried about esha and her boyfriend. I told her my side of the story and she said she would call me later when she gets off of work. Idk whats going on with my ex and her man and i don't care. There's no beef with me and this guy even though he said he'd shoot me. I just want to move on and be happy. Every time i make progress, she finds a way to resurface. If she has a boyfriend, why would she care what i say or do?I don't contact her or her man. And whats makes it even crazier is that I'm AAAALLLLLLLL the way in Oklahoma! I really think i'm going to need counseling. This girl has driven me nuts. Link to comment
happyfrank Posted October 10, 2012 Share Posted October 10, 2012 Don't pick up calls from anybody from your ex or act busy when they call and click on them. Go secure on twitter and block anybody you like on twitter so they can't read your tweets or follow you without permission. Forget about them and move on.. Good luck to you. Link to comment
metrogirl Posted October 10, 2012 Share Posted October 10, 2012 I know nothing about twitter but you weren't obligated to reply to whatever you saw right? I would also delete or whatever it is you do on Twitter so you can't see their stuff. I think changing your number might be a good idea too. As long as her momma can still reach you, you are never going to heal. You just have to take that bold step and disconnect fully so she or her friends or her momma can't call you. Link to comment
FreeFallFeelin Posted October 10, 2012 Share Posted October 10, 2012 Oddly enough I think this is a good thing T5. You have a lot of confirmation that your ex is a game playing drama queen. RUN like the wind! Someday you'll meet a nice level headed girl that matches your vibe and you'll be thanking God that you got away from that person. Been there, done that! Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted October 10, 2012 Share Posted October 10, 2012 I understand how painful this must have been for you, but why do you continue to give them the access to contact you? This will never end unless you take the steps to block her, and her friends as well. Link to comment
spd19 Posted October 10, 2012 Share Posted October 10, 2012 T5, you should delete any contact you have with your ex.. from what i read she is not worth it. I would not follow her bf or her on twitter. also try not to talk with her mom. its not worth it will bring you some steps back. Link to comment
TopFive Posted October 10, 2012 Author Share Posted October 10, 2012 I have had no contact with her or talked about her since that night she sent me that screwed up message. Her mom says that she says im getting in the way. Getting in the way of what? If yal are truly happy i shouldnt matter. It's just all crazy. Soon as i start doing good, here they go. And i can tell you that ive been good since tht incident. I think she watches my tweets and thinks i talk about her. But im the one that needs a life? i hate her. i have the right to. Link to comment
SilverManic Posted October 11, 2012 Share Posted October 11, 2012 remove her off twitter and change your number. Who needs game players? She seems like she thinks the world revolves around her. News flash it doesn't make it obvious you want nothing to do with her. Get rid of any way of them making contact if they come to your house say you are done with the drama and ask them to please leave so you can move on with your life. Link to comment
bw92116 Posted October 11, 2012 Share Posted October 11, 2012 You have to cut off all contact, by all methods, from her and from anyone she knows. Permanently. Link to comment
calichick007 Posted October 11, 2012 Share Posted October 11, 2012 Be honest. Do you take subliminal shots at her/them on twitter? Honestly. Link to comment
EmEm Posted October 11, 2012 Share Posted October 11, 2012 I agree with what most everyone else is sayin. Just find a way to block them and forget about all this. Drama isnt good for anybody, especially if they arent even close by ! Link to comment
TopFive Posted October 11, 2012 Author Share Posted October 11, 2012 Be honest. Do you take subliminal shots at her/them on twitter? Honestly. When i was really hurting i did. i did a little when he tweeted about me. but i decided it wasnt worth it. Link to comment
TopFive Posted October 11, 2012 Author Share Posted October 11, 2012 You have to cut off all contact, by all methods, from her and from anyone she knows. Permanently. I did. Until her mother called me. She said he's be tellin my ex that i send him messages. All this because of a lie her bf told her. Link to comment
calichick007 Posted October 11, 2012 Share Posted October 11, 2012 When i was really hurting i did. i did a little when he tweeted about me. but i decided it wasnt worth it. Block them both on Twitter. Stop leaving a crack in the door. Link to comment
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