aquabubbles2001 Posted October 23, 2004 Share Posted October 23, 2004 Ok, this was my first boyfriend and he is amazing.. I mean he is swet and kind and everything.. And I do love him.. but.. Im his second girlfriend and with his first he did everything -_-.. anyways I felt like if I cant be first at least make sure Im the one.. So I told him to date 5 other girls 3 dates each.. You noe just to make sure u do like me.. But do u think iM crazy? Imean if he does like a girl then we noe its wasnt meant to be.. But if he doesnt then at least we both noe we are meant for each other.. at least for now,, I noev im 16 and should think about this yet but Im like that LOL.. oh yeah he is also from florida while Im from NJ.. so another reason Im doing this.. Link to comment
xmrth Posted October 23, 2004 Share Posted October 23, 2004 I think the best way to find out if you're the one is to see how far your relationship takes you, not tell him to date all these other girls... Link to comment
fallslikerain Posted October 23, 2004 Share Posted October 23, 2004 yeah, it seems pretty counter productive to tell him to see other people if you want to improve your relationship Link to comment
hurtbylove Posted October 23, 2004 Share Posted October 23, 2004 Oh boy, I would be in so much trouble just to get on a date with 5 different girls. Just let your relationship run it's course, nothing is ever guaranteed. He might be right one, or not. Whatever happens, it's a learning experience. Link to comment
OceanEyes Posted October 23, 2004 Share Posted October 23, 2004 A 16 year old guy is not going to understand what the heck you're talking about when you tell him to go date 5 other girls. Why not just enjoy what you have and take things as they come? I personally think that 16 is far too young to put this poor guy to the test like you're doing. To be honest with you, I doubt he'll come back if you insist that he go through with it. Link to comment
aquabubbles2001 Posted October 23, 2004 Author Share Posted October 23, 2004 yeah i suppose ur righ.. but its not like I can do anything about it now.. oh well.. Link to comment
i know it Posted October 24, 2004 Share Posted October 24, 2004 tell him you changed your mind....its not the greatest idea to tell a guy to go date other people...thats like saying "hey im not good enough for you why dont you see if you can find anyone better...and if not ill be right here i guess" hes your boyfriend...why get rid of him Link to comment
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