miss_sunshine86 Posted July 5, 2012 Share Posted July 5, 2012 I was doing so well i was over it I went to a party, i had no idea he'd be there as he never went ANYWHERE when we were together He disappeared on march 31st after a 7 month relationship and planning our future, marriage I hav e been NC for 2 months He was at the party and he said "hey, sorry about that" in THE most non commital way, ever HE DISAPPEARED ON ME AFTER 6 YEARS ON/OFF AND SAID "SORRY BOUT THAT" AS IF HE STEPPED ON MY TOE ***!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HELP ME Link to comment
pippy longstocking Posted July 6, 2012 Share Posted July 6, 2012 oh darling isn't that just class .... I am sat shaking my head like a crazy old school mistress here .. what did you say ? Link to comment
miss_sunshine86 Posted July 6, 2012 Author Share Posted July 6, 2012 i said "its nice to see you anyway take care i am going back to my friend" and i went back to my firend now i am at home cryin Link to comment
pippy longstocking Posted July 6, 2012 Share Posted July 6, 2012 Oh bless you but big big respect for not having a showdown and for just walking away .. is this the first time you have had any contact since he just disappeared Link to comment
miss_sunshine86 Posted July 6, 2012 Author Share Posted July 6, 2012 yeah i got more drunk and danced on stage with loads of friends like a performer he just watched and then went home Link to comment
pippy longstocking Posted July 6, 2012 Share Posted July 6, 2012 makes you wonder what the hell is running through their heads doesn't it ... darling if you have had a skin full the best thing you can do is just call it a day and go to bed because the drink will do nothing for your mood . if htis has been going on and off for 6 years is it likely that he will be back ? Link to comment
miss_sunshine86 Posted July 6, 2012 Author Share Posted July 6, 2012 he disappaeared on 31 march no calls no nothing just disappeared i said to him so, what?: he said, "soz about that" *** F*** OFF that is b/s I was moving on, not thinkin about him i will resume that when im sober i said to him, "ok i have to get back to my friend" he looked like he was having a great time **** HIM Link to comment
pippy longstocking Posted July 6, 2012 Share Posted July 6, 2012 yeah thats all you can do ..get back on top of this when your sober .. it is a killer when your doing so well and then bang , there they are ...and of course you deserve somewhat of a better explantion than that .. Link to comment
miss_sunshine86 Posted July 6, 2012 Author Share Posted July 6, 2012 my explanation was "sorry about that" its a shame cos i love this night can't go anymore not if he is there he is evil Link to comment
annie24 Posted July 6, 2012 Share Posted July 6, 2012 ouch. that hurts. i'm really sorry. it's too bad he couldn't have been a decent human being and not just disappeared on you. however, he is a big pile of chicken poop and took the easy way out. blah. you really deserve better and now that you are single, you can find better! Link to comment
miss_sunshine86 Posted July 6, 2012 Author Share Posted July 6, 2012 Hey sorry I was a bit merry when I typed this last night. I really am sorry for the * words. I got home and cried then went to bed. I am glad i took the high road though I always imagined if I saw him i'd scream and shout but it just felt like there was no point. And the whole time we were talking he had a little grin on his face. Its like he's sick in the head. Link to comment
pippy longstocking Posted July 6, 2012 Share Posted July 6, 2012 glad your ok ...don't worry , it was clear you had had a drink always makes our emotions go mad hey ..well at least you can hold your head up high knowing you saw hm and just walked away gald your ok today Link to comment
FYI Posted July 6, 2012 Share Posted July 6, 2012 He took the coward's way out; disappear, say nothing, know nothing. Link to comment
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