Should I ask her?

[Damz]

I have been dating this girl for about a year now. I love her and we mess around a lot, but we still haven't gone all the way, nor have I seen her completely naked yet. She wants to take it slow and I am fine with that.

 

A few weeks ago, I looked up her username for a music website she had joined on Google because I couldn't remember the exact website URL. A result for an amateur pornsite popped up. I clicked it and looked through the pictures. The account says that the user was last active about three years ago, and she would have been 18 at that time. The girl in the picture kind of looks like her, but she doesn't have her face in any of the pictures (and they are three years old) so I can't figure out if it is her or not. These are solo pictures but also pictures of her performing in sexual acts with a male.

 

I really don't care if they are of her or not in the sense that it won't make a difference in our relationship, but I am incredibly curious to find out. On the one hand, she may feel less shy about getting naked in front of me if they are her and she knows I have seen them and liked them, but I don't want to embarrass her either.

 

EDIT: I should add that the account information on the website doesn't match up with any of her info (for example, it says she is 24 when she is 21, etc.) but she could have always lied on it?

[caitlincrowley]

I say don't say anything. Because that would be mortifying. Instead take her out to a really nice restaurant (not a chain restaurant). Buy her roses, etc. And honestly have a talk about taking your relationship to the next level (since you have been dating for a year!!)