NICEMAN99 Posted November 21, 2011 Share Posted November 21, 2011 i have posted here before long story short: wife of 14 years cheated on me with a coworker of hers we split up,they get together,i was a mess,7 weeks later he (wifes coworker) call it off. 2 weeks later wife calls me for sex ONLY. we had and it was akward we been having sex ever since but everytime is better and better. i lost over 60 pounds ,dress way better hit the gym so i look better!! THATS WHAT SHE SAYS!!! she doesnt want to get back together even though she asks me to sleep at the house almost everyday. they (wife and coworker) still speak to each other ,they work together !! but i know for a fact he doesnt want anything but friendship from her!! but still kills me to know they talk. NOW THIS IS THE PURPOSE OF MY POST. we been having sex on a regular basics for the past 3 months and many times she asked me to move in,and i said no is to early,and thanks god i did not cause she changes her mind almost everyday. but oct 17 she called me saying i was her everything and i was the only one who has loved her no matter what!! on oct 18 she called off again and proposed me to remain lovers (no string attached) accepted but bought a ticket to italy (leaving oct 20)so i can move on. on oct 19 she started again sweet and stuff and wanted to get back together ,i felt like * * * * cause i had a plane ticket and i had to tell her. when i did tell her she got angry!!! and again tells me taht she doesnt want to be with me and many painfull things. while in italy i received a bunch of messages saying how she misses me and why did i leave? we had fun together etc. but i found out she was talking and trying to have sex with her coworker ,which he turn her down!! when i got back it took a week before she contacted me for coffee (it was nov 9 and i got back nov 1) i accepted,,but the minute i walk in to the house she started kissing me and telling me how good i look i tryed to turn her down but couldnt! and we been having sex eversince everyday. she asked me to have sex together and to be exclusive to each other at least until january... which i find stupid. she talks about the future and then she talks how we are going to be meeting up new people on jnuary. and when i try to stop things she calls me back saying we could start over like this you in your house me with my liberty and who knows we could get back!!! there is a girls that calls me and texts me from time to time!! she gets mad and jealous when she calls me,,,even though i dont answer when im with her!! yesterday we went to a restaurant and was saying stuff like: we been having sex way more often now that we split up then before ,sex is better now then before. we spend more time together then before!! we are more together then before why get back if its great as it its? she said. and when i said : but in january you want to start dating new people why wait,, go ahead now!!! she replyed : i said i wont look for someone before january. maybe we still be together like this on june or even next year. or maybe we can get back together like this. i love my wife and i love my kids!!!! i dont mind this situation as long as its heading somewhere ... which it looks like sometimes but some other times is heading to ,,,im just filling an empty space right now. has anybody been in this situation? should i continue waiting for things to get better(which they have been getting better and better)she wants to see each other and remain free!! i dont have a problem with that as long as she doesnt sleep with other guys. or should i just end this and swallow the pain i know the 2 times i told her is over she contacted me the next day asking me if i was still mad!! and to come and see her. COULD THIS WORK OR AM I JUST WAISTING MY TIME? AND MONEY I HAVE BEEN TAKING HER TO NICE RESTAURANTS. OR SHOULD I LOOK MORE BUSSY AND LESS AT HER NEEDS? any woman advice would be apreciated I KNOW IS HARD TO FOLLOW BUT THERE IS SO MUCH INFORMATION THAT IF I PUT THE WHOLE THING IT WOULD BE 4 PAGES SO ILL GIVE INFO IF ASKED. Link to comment
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