jevonj77 Posted November 21, 2011 Share Posted November 21, 2011 I'm just curious... How many of you would take up a guy's offer...(that maybe you don't know too well...(you've seen him around your neighborhood, or just meet him at a club once, or chat with him on Facebook) to give you oral sex? Also...if so how would he generally have to approach you so that you take him up on this offer? Just mentioning this because my girl is super sensitive when I give her oral sex and as a result I don't do it with her very often. However I love giving oral sex and it's still something I'd like to do to give that level of pleasure to someone else...just turns me on! Link to comment
FathomFear Posted November 21, 2011 Share Posted November 21, 2011 Just to clarify--are you saying that you're currently in a relationship but are tempted to cheat because you are not being satisfied in this area? Link to comment
lavenderdove Posted November 21, 2011 Share Posted November 21, 2011 If you're asking for permission to cheat with random women by offering them oral sex you're not going to get it here. In fact, most women would be totally creeped out if a guy approaches them and offers it out of the blue. It would seem kind of pervy and like you have a fetish. Most women want to date men, not be approached to be used as a sex toy or to satisfy some guy's itch. Everyone has different sexual preferences, and perhaps you are 'going at it' too strongly on your GF and need to be more gentle with her. It can be as painful or more painful than a women who grabs your nuts and squeezes too hard. You may need to learn to use more gentle licking motions with all of your tongue (like on an ice cream cone) rather then piledriving on her with the tip of your tongue which can be painful for someone who is sensitive. Everyone's anatomy is different. If she doesn't want it at all, then perhaps you aren't sexually compatible and need to look for a new GF rather than contemplating cheating. Link to comment
Ryme Posted November 21, 2011 Share Posted November 21, 2011 I can empathise with your girlfriend. To me, I have to be very comfortable with a guy to let him do that - somehow it feels even more intimate that giving oral sex to a man. It can be very intense or painful, and without meaning to, that means I hold back from allowing myself to enjoy it fully. Be patient and gentle with her! Link to comment
Brownstone322 Posted November 21, 2011 Share Posted November 21, 2011 ... how would he generally have to approach you so that you take him up on this offer? How 'bout in a fantasy world? If I tried that with a casual acquaintance, I'd expect her to be trying to look me up on a sex-offender's registry. Then let's flip it. Can you imagine some woman you know only casually offering to give you head? In what context would that happen? ("Hey ... I've been thinkin' ... how 'bout I give you head next Thursday night? Say 7:30-ish?") C'mon. Head is something you usually have to earn. Link to comment
Ariel85 Posted November 21, 2011 Share Posted November 21, 2011 Put it this way. Any girl who would take you up on your offer is NOT someone you'd want to go down on. Link to comment
Edmund Exley Posted November 21, 2011 Share Posted November 21, 2011 Girls for the most part find that to be very intimate. I doubt you will find many who will say "Sure, go on down!!!" Link to comment
jevonj77 Posted November 21, 2011 Author Share Posted November 21, 2011 Ha! It's more of a curious thought. Guess I'm flirting with the idea even though I know I won't go through with it( didn't really realize it). Have never ever cheated...But it's an idea that I think of only when the subject comes up with my girlfriend. So I guess it's kind of a fantasy of mine. Love my girl too much though to actually do this. I mean these things do come up with couples( why many are watching porn!)...Or like the couple who fantasizes about what it would be like to do a "movie star" or "pop star" things like that. The situation I'm in just reminds me think of this sometimes. Link to comment
Brownstone322 Posted November 21, 2011 Share Posted November 21, 2011 Put it this way. Any girl who would take you up on your offer is NOT someone you'd want to go down on. Great answer. Link to comment
Miss Kitty Posted November 22, 2011 Share Posted November 22, 2011 I think walking up to a random woman a club and asking if you can stick your tongue in her vagina is going to end up with a kick to your groin and phone call to the police. Not to mention that cheating on your girlfriend is never okay. Link to comment
Miss Kitty Posted November 22, 2011 Share Posted November 22, 2011 Great answer. Very true. If she'd do oral with a guy she just met, chances are he's getting a mouthful of aides. I don't think that's the taste he's after. Link to comment
PaintWithLight Posted November 22, 2011 Share Posted November 22, 2011 Ha! It's more of a curious thought. Guess I'm flirting with the idea even though I know I won't go through with it( didn't really realize it). Have never ever cheated...But it's an idea that I think of only when the subject comes up with my girlfriend. So I guess it's kind of a fantasy of mine. Love my girl too much though to actually do this. I mean these things do come up with couples( why many are watching porn!)...Or like the couple who fantasizes about what it would be like to do a "movie star" or "pop star" things like that. The situation I'm in just reminds me think of this sometimes. Better leave this kind of curious thought or fantasy alone. Oral sex is something pretty intimate and if you feel like giving, call the United Way for a donation. Oral favors should not be reduced to give aways, sex aint Halloween! Link to comment
april15 Posted November 22, 2011 Share Posted November 22, 2011 How long have you been in this relationship? Is the oral sex the only thing lacking? I'm sorry but I don't think there is a lot of sense to be made of women wanting oral sex from random guys. I would guess you will need to find a way to get your gf interested or find a new gf. Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted November 22, 2011 Share Posted November 22, 2011 This thread has run its course. Link to comment
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