Biggoofyguy32 Posted November 20, 2011 Share Posted November 20, 2011 I have a question. My girlfriend broke up with me 3 days ago. I spent the first 2 days upset calling her and telling her I love her and don’t wanna be without her. Saying things like don’t you love me? You are perfect for me I don’t wanna lose you! I’m sorry yadda yadda yadda. Then to make things worse I woke up this morning with such a broken heart I got in my truck and drove by her place. I feel like such a stalker and need to stop but my mind is just screwed up. Thinking what if she is with someone else? What is she doing? Is she thinking of me? What if I lose her! i think i made things worse sounding very desperate like my world is nothing without her. She wants me to give her space. So I am initiation the No Contact rule. After reading a bit about it I believe it could do wonders for me. But my question is this. I was just going to not call her again for a month. What if she calls me? What if she calls and wants to talk to me cause she misses me or something? Do I take the call or do I just completely ignore her? I don’t want this NC rule to back fire on me either. I love this girl and would like to get back together with her. But I definitely need to turn the tables around and make her chase me. Thank you for your time. looking forward to hearing from you. Link to comment
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