minimini Posted November 18, 2011 Share Posted November 18, 2011 So... I was the one who had the emotional/ physical affair with my jr. high sweetheart. I'm the one who put myself in the situation I'm in... So I don't expect sympathy. But, I'm posting anyway. I'm trying my hardest to make things better, fresher, happier with my husband. I just landed over here, in the foreign country where he's working because I knew it was the only chance we have at working things out. I know, from my end, that I plan on doing ALL I can. That being said, let me just say, DON'T DO IT. If you are having an emotional affair, plan to, are just "flirting", whatever it is... DON'T! My affair, which was mostly emotional, has killed my spirit! Though it's over, and we're no contact (with the exception of OP professing his love via messages once a month or so), it feels awful! I've done this to my own life. My husband and I were troubled before.... But now the road to better is SO much longer. Getting past the affair and trying to get my marriage back on track is the crappiest thing I've ever had to do. Though the OP is out of the picture.... He's still in my head.... I want him gone from my memory so badly! I want my marriage back, my husband's affection back, a happy family life back! If you are starting something right now.... DONT DO IT! Get out before it sinks in to your bones and becomes a part of you that you hate!! Link to comment
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