mindless08 Posted November 13, 2011 Share Posted November 13, 2011 My boyfriend's best friend is in the military, and is home for the first time in over a year. Tonight is his last night home, and then he will be gone for another 8 months. I know that my boyfriend has been kind of upset about not getting to see him a lot while he's here and about last time he was home not getting to spend a lot of time with him. We were at his house with some of his family, but our son was getting cranky and we were supposed to babysit his neice and nephew so he said let's get going. His friend seemed upset that he was leaving. My boyfriend kept making excuses, like I dont want you to have the kids alone, or I wont have a ride, when I offered to take the baby home and watch the other kids while he stayed with his friend. I thought he was only doing this because he felt bad that I had to leave and he got to stay and hang out...he's told me in the past that he felt bad going out and doing things if I wasn't going. So I told him to stay and hang out, and I left with the baby...thinking I was doing something good and helping him. He said "I dont even get to really hang out with him because he has to see his family, but now I have to stay. So thank you." Now he's mad and won't answer me when I texted to apologize. Was I wrong to do this for him? Does he really have a reason to treat me like this? I was only trying to help him. I thought he would want to stay and be with his friend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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