icstarz11 Posted November 10, 2011 Share Posted November 10, 2011 Not sure what heading was beast to put this under. I have recently gotten engaged to a guy I have been dating for 6 years, living together for 1 year. This will be my first and hopefully only marriage. We have an extremely stable, loving relationship and everyone we know is happy for us. BUT, i have this one co-worker who i guess you could kind of call my friend. I'm not sure what to label her. She, on multiple occasions, has told me that a wedding is not important and no one really cares about going. Her exact words were "Peope don't really want to go to your wedding." It kind of threw me off a little. I'm not usually one to take people's opinions to heart, but why on earth would anyone tell someone that? My thoughts are that she might be jealous, considering she is 34 and never been married, but has expressed the want for kids and marriage. But she says when she does get engaged, she is going to the justice of the peace and thats exactly what i should do. Am i the only person who thinks this is rude? This is more than likely the only wedding I will ever have in my life, why wouldn't I want an actual wedding? Link to comment
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