peaceOfmind78 Posted November 9, 2011 Share Posted November 9, 2011 The only time we really had some sort of interaction was at her wedding...i was a bit tipsy when we danced so i dont remember if we had a good conversation. All i remember was dancing and having a great time! He's been sending private messages on FB to comment on my wall posts, then he said, "Pretty random, but would you like to have lunch sometime? I promise not to dance." Long story short, i said yes but raincheck b/c of busy schedule. He agreed. There's 90% chance that we'll see each other again so i thought it might be better to address and let my friend know that her cousin and i are pending lunch. Any thoughts? Thank you in advance. Link to comment
camus154 Posted November 9, 2011 Share Posted November 9, 2011 Sure, go ahead and mention it. That was easy, wasn't it? Link to comment
abitbroken Posted November 9, 2011 Share Posted November 9, 2011 It's up to you, but I really would just go out with the cousin first. Otherwise the friend is going to be too involved. Its just lunch. If it is bad, neither of you have to mention it ever again, and if its good, and you decide you want to date, then let her know. Or maybe he already has. If he invited you to go on a cruise, i would say something but for lunch, i wouldn't make it a family affair. You don't want her to interfere or stick her nose in if there is nothing there. Link to comment
Day_Walker Posted November 9, 2011 Share Posted November 9, 2011 I dont see why disclosure that her cousin asked you to lunch is necessary or why you wouldnt say something. Link to comment
bluexin99 Posted November 10, 2011 Share Posted November 10, 2011 Yep i think you should tell her Link to comment
peaceOfmind78 Posted November 21, 2011 Author Share Posted November 21, 2011 So, I finally informed my friend that her cousin asked me out to lunch and she was totally cool with it =) Link to comment
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