JustMe34 Posted November 2, 2011 Share Posted November 2, 2011 I've been dating a guy for about a year now and we now live together. One day I was going to long on to check my e-mails when I went to sign off there was still an e-mail account still logged on. When I started reading there was a bunch of e-mail from different men and women about sex. I asked my bf about it and he said he had lent the laptop to his friend (whom I have never heard of) and that it must of been his friends account. Usually when it comes to making love he expects me to take charge 100% of the time and he believes his job is to just lie there because he works all day to provide for me and my son while I stay home. Today I put my son to bed early so by the time my bf got home I had dinner ready and had on a very sexy lingerie. He told me I looked "very hot" and we ate dinner. No hugs or kisses NOTHING! Then he offers to help with the dishes but I insist on me doing them and him taking a shower to relax. When I come to the bedroom he called his daughter (previous marriage) and when he is done he still doesn't touch me and says hes gonna shower. At this point I felt rejected so I changed to a t-shirt when he gets out I tell him of my concerns and he says "that's your problem." He genuinely is a sweet guy but I beginning to wonder if he's A) Just to tired B) Not attracted to me C) Gay. I love him and want our relationship to work but I don't want to be with him if he is interested. Although when I ask him he tells me he thinks I am beautiful etc... and any guy would be lucky to have me. I don't know what to make of it all. HELP! Link to comment
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