Sk00 Posted September 22, 2011 Share Posted September 22, 2011 Hi, I'm new to this forum but from what i read so far a lot of members are very helpful.I really could use some good advice.Thanks for your time. I met this girl 2 years ago.We hit it off right off the bat and begun dating.We were very much in love and couldn't stand away from each other.Last Feb we got engage. But around July she started hanging out with her old friend (i hate her friend cuz shes known for being a * * * * ).They stared going out to clubs and hang out a lot.I stayed at home because i really don't like to go to clubs anymore and i don't like her friend.I admit i rather play video games and spend time at home then go do all those stuff.But i started having suspicion about this one guy that always hang out with her group.I ask her about it and she said they were just friends.But my suspicions never went away and i started to give her attitude about hanging out with those people.Needless to say things stared to get rocky between us and last month i finally snapped and broke up with her because i couldn't deal with the people she hands out with. Immediately after that i regret what i did and apologize to her.To my surprise she told me shes been thinking about breaking up with me and told me she needed time to herself ( we had fights but we always come back to each other mostly because its stupid things we fought over).So i stayed at my friends for a while ( we lived together for a year already).After the break up i tried everything i can to make things work(beg,flowers,letters,....etc).But she kept acting hot and cold towards me and i asked her if shes seeing someone else and she told me "no".After 2 weeks into the break up i found out that she was saying (the guy i had my suspicions on) her new boyfriend and stuff through her tumblr page.So i called her and confronted her about it and she admits to me that she somewhat likes him.I asked her if she wants to work things out with me and she told me she needs time to think to see what she wants.I felt that she wanted her cake and eat it too.So i went back to the house and took my stuff out.She went crazy on me when i did.She called me i'm low and a * * * * because i 'm doing this to make her fall and i'm not a man for taking the stuff she bought for me.I left her with everything i got for her except for the rings which still is way more that what she got for me.After that she told me to stop contacting her.She deleted me off all social sties but made herself public and told me shes gonna post how great her life is.And she sure did after i left she officially dates that guy and post all kind of stuff with her and the guy. It really left me broken because i feel like what we had doesn't really mean * * * * to her.How can you love somebody so much and one day she just goes onto another like its nothing.She say things like how hes the best bf she ever had and hes there for her.I really feel like * * * * i know i shouldn't be looking at her FB but i didn't say anything to her or contact her.2 weeks ago she facetime me asked if i want to see my dog.I told her yes and we agree to meet up for coffee.Throughout the meeting i didn't talk about our relationship or ask about that guy.It went well after that she texted me her number and told me it was good to see me again.I ask her why shes contacting me again after she said she hate me and stuff.She said she never hated me and it was just out of anger.I told her,her new bf wouldn't like her contacting me and she told me shes not in love with him yet.She wants us to be friends so that it won't be awkward when i see my dog in the future.After that she facetime me now and then and text me.I still love her very much but i tried not to tell her that. Every time she text me or call me i tried my best just to make her smile.Shes still with that guy and still posting how shes happy for their 1 month(yesterday) and wants many years with him.What does this all mean?I'm very confused i feel like shes just using me as her fall back guy.It sucks that i love her still and wants to be with her.What should i do at this point?I'm not depressed,i've been socializing with new people and taking care of myself but i do know that i want to be with her.It may not seems like its worth it to you guys but i just can't let her go.I tried to talk to other girls but i feel they just don't compare to my ex.She was absolutely wonderful when we were together and took care of me like nobody i ever had.What should i do please advice me. Link to comment
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