caveman91 Posted September 18, 2011 Share Posted September 18, 2011 I wanted to address the issue that seems to come up on this forum a lot....which is the whole "we've been on 2,3,4, or 5 dates and no kiss......does this mean he is not interested question." I've in a relationship now that has had lots of dates and no kiss. But I've communicated my attraction to her and my reasons for wanting to wait on the kiss upfront. But even if I didn't I think there are a lot of other things a woman can read to determine if he's interested. So my recommendation to you ladies is this: I wouldn't put a lot of stock in the whole.....it's been 2,3,4 or 5 dates and no kiss....so he's not interested thing. I would wager to say that a guy isn't going to take you on 5 dates, if he's not interested. Why would anyone do that? I think there are a lot of other things to consider. I'll just throw a few things out there. When you talk does he listen?...really try to listen and understand your view? Is it obvious that he will try to go out with you when he can? When I'm really interested in a woman it's difficult for me to try and date more than one person. So if I am available to date/hang out multiple times a week....that's a strong sign that I'm interested. Here's one that probably a lot guys don't do, but (hey guys I recommend that you do). I try to listen to random details of what a woman likes. So for example if she mentions that she likes Johnny Depp. I might show up on our next date with a Captain Jack Sparrow action figure or something. In a lot of ways, these types of gifts will mean more to a woman than expensive jewelry.....although I also believe jewelry certainly has it's place in the gift-giving process. But these random gifts....show her that you are into her and take an interest in really listening to her likes/dislikes. If a guy does this sort of thing, I don't care if its been 10 dates an no kiss.....he likes you. Also to the guys, don't forgot to tell her she's beautiful. You're on a date with a beautiful woman, why wouldn't you say it? Come on guys, life's too short not to. And besides, it's a great way to close the date....let it be the last thing she hears from you until the next date. As the relationship progresses. Tell her early. Tell her often. Just my 2 cents. There are lots of other things to read I'm sure that haven't mentioned. But this is a good start. So Ladies, I wouldn't put a lot of stock in the ....X dates and no kiss thing. Link to comment
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