Tussin Posted September 16, 2011 Share Posted September 16, 2011 Just wondering.. I was thinking about this, probably feeling a little self-conscious. It might sound a little paranoid, but there are so many people registered on this forum. Link to comment
Princess123 Posted September 16, 2011 Share Posted September 16, 2011 I wish he was and that I knew because then I could see his side of the story. Link to comment
aminaSa Posted September 16, 2011 Share Posted September 16, 2011 no im not he doesnt speak english and he doesnt use internet a lot lol Link to comment
Lavender25 Posted September 16, 2011 Share Posted September 16, 2011 I've had the same thought, too, but really... what are the chances? I don't think I've ever said anything bad about him, though. Just trying to make sense of the relationship, how it ended, and why he did the things he did. I agree with Princess. If he were on this forum and shared his side of the story, maybe I could get some closure. Link to comment
Princess123 Posted September 16, 2011 Share Posted September 16, 2011 I agree with lavender though, I don't say mean things, just trying to make sense of things. Link to comment
Imthatguy Posted September 16, 2011 Share Posted September 16, 2011 I wish he was and that I knew because then I could see his side of the story. I'm with this. It'd be very interesting to see their side of the story with all the cards down on the table. Link to comment
Doofus Posted September 16, 2011 Share Posted September 16, 2011 This has happened and led to a reconciliation! (A link to it is in the getting back together thread, I think...) To answer the question: I am. It's one of the reasons I haven't really told my story here. I imagine, though, that if she were here, she isn't anymore. Too much time has passed..... Link to comment
Lithp Posted September 16, 2011 Share Posted September 16, 2011 No, I'm not really worried about it. Two of my more 'serious' boyfriends, shockingly, barely knew how to turn on a computer, let alone knew what an 'online forum' is. Since I joined here I'm particularly careful to not give out too much information regarding my current boyfriend, just in case. I don't see him browsing relationship forums, but you never know! How embarrassing though... I would just die. "Excuse me, Lithp? Why are you discussing our personal matters over the internet with people you don't know?" He already thinks I'm a loon, that would probably just take the cake. Link to comment
doyathink Posted September 16, 2011 Share Posted September 16, 2011 Im pretty sure he is. He knows who I am bc he walked in when I had this site up, and he's seen my avatar on my pc in my pics.... Link to comment
In the Dark Posted September 16, 2011 Share Posted September 16, 2011 No. Her form of getting over someone is blaming them for all her faults and then jumping into another relationship. Link to comment
Fudgie Posted September 16, 2011 Share Posted September 16, 2011 No. None of my exes are into internet forums, let alone "relationship" ones. Link to comment
doyathink Posted September 16, 2011 Share Posted September 16, 2011 No. Her form of getting over someone is blaming them for all her faults and then jumping into another relationship. I should try that Link to comment
vanillacupcake Posted September 16, 2011 Share Posted September 16, 2011 no im not he doesnt speak english and he doesnt use internet a lot lol oooh, my type of man. Link to comment
In the Dark Posted September 16, 2011 Share Posted September 16, 2011 I should try that Whatever works I suppose..... I wouldn't condone it though.....damn morals. Link to comment
doyathink Posted September 16, 2011 Share Posted September 16, 2011 Whatever works I suppose..... I wouldn't condone it though.....damn morals. I was kidding of course Link to comment
Mellie Posted September 16, 2011 Share Posted September 16, 2011 You never know but the odds are that, unless you both arrived at the crappy, pour your heart out stage, you probably wouldn't recognise each other anyway, unless you went reading through reams of backstory on other members. And it's unlikely you would both be here in that period because dumpee and dumper are normally working on different timeframes. I wonder how many times both parties have been on here and never knew. It wouldn't bother me if my ex were here. I don't have anything to hide. Link to comment
SorrowandPain Posted September 16, 2011 Share Posted September 16, 2011 No. Her form of getting over someone is blaming them for all her faults and then jumping into another relationship. looks like we have the same ex! Link to comment
In the Dark Posted September 16, 2011 Share Posted September 16, 2011 I was kidding of course ha yeah like to openly consider lol looks like we have the same ex! Well my condolences.... Link to comment
wheelerdealer Posted September 16, 2011 Share Posted September 16, 2011 If my ex were able to be emotional at all (aka. not a robot) there's a chance she would be here. Ah well Link to comment
LN1987 Posted September 16, 2011 Share Posted September 16, 2011 looks like we have the same ex! Same as mine to! Link to comment
dolorosa Posted September 16, 2011 Share Posted September 16, 2011 My ex and I were using this forum at the same time. He was a member before me, and I ended up reading all his post for the past two years, most of the stuff had nothing to do with me but with his marriage before we met, but I also found out how lost he was in our relationship. I wish I had not found out the person posting was my ex, his posts were not for me to read, but is done now. Perhaps if I would not have read the posts we could have been together now. Does not matter anymore. Link to comment
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