PJM Posted August 24, 2011 Share Posted August 24, 2011 I have been in reationship with my Boyfriend for 4 yrs now. We are living together and planning to get married. Lately I have noticed that although he talks about having children all the time, he us hardly taking any time to spend together intimately. Its been 3 months now that we havent slept together. Whenever I approach this he says its finanial burden & and psycolgical and dosnt not feel like it. He is just 41 yrs old and talks as if he has lost complete interest... This is creating a lot of stress in the relationship,when I try to confront him, he blames it on be that I am not able to help him financially that is is the reason he is stressed out. I am in and out of a job now and struggling to establish a career. This is creating a lot of frustuation in me in addition to the job search stress I am going through..... I have suggested counselling, but he is unwilling for that...he wants to talk but I am afraid he will put the blame on me and job situation again and put focus on me rather than himself. Do I have any hope in this relationship?? Any advice or suggestions will be helpful. Thanks Link to comment
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