ashley001 Posted August 23, 2011 Share Posted August 23, 2011 I haven't seen my boyfriend in a week, we've both been super busy. We definitely both miss each other, I have the day off of work, I was thinking about surprising him after he gets out of class today. I know where he parks his car, so I'd probably wait there. Cute or creepy? Link to comment
crushongirl Posted August 23, 2011 Share Posted August 23, 2011 Not cute or creepy. Sounds like an invasion of privacy though. Also looks needy on your part. Link to comment
DN Posted August 23, 2011 Share Posted August 23, 2011 I don't see anything wrong with it. Link to comment
ToF Posted August 23, 2011 Share Posted August 23, 2011 I don't think it's creepy, but it's not all that cute, either. It's sort of neutral, in my opinion. Who does most of the contacting? Meaning, does he call/text/etc you first, or vice versa? I ask because if you come off as needy or clingy already, this is probably not a good idea. However, if it's obvious he's been missing you and wants to see you then I say go for it. Link to comment
Flyingpiglet Posted August 23, 2011 Share Posted August 23, 2011 Only problem I could see is if he has made plans with friends, thinking you are at work. He may feel 'put on the spot'. As if you expect him to drop everything for you. Suppose it somewhat depends on the dynamics of your relationship! What about suprising him with a phonecall and asking him to meet up! x x Link to comment
Alezia Posted August 23, 2011 Share Posted August 23, 2011 I advise not to do it as a surprise. It may not come off as you expect it to, and I've seen instances of the girlfriend mysteriously 'appearing to stalk' him. The only exception is if he's done it to you in the past, then perhaps he sees no harm. I agree with the above posters, a nice phone call when you know he leaves work and then meet up with him is great. Link to comment
Vincent Ruiz Posted August 23, 2011 Share Posted August 23, 2011 If you guys are already in an established relationship then I don't see how it would be creepy. If I was too busy to spend time with my gf and she pulled a surprise like that then I would really appreciate the gesture. I see things like that as trying to keep the relationship strong because things like conflicting work schedules are usually things that contribute to relationships going sour. There is nothing wrong with showing him that the relationship is important to you and that you'd be willing to put life on hold for a bit just to spend what little free time you guys have together. If it's not something that he would appreciate then maybe he just has different priorities. But everyone is different in their approach to life. Link to comment
schultz Posted August 23, 2011 Share Posted August 23, 2011 id be happy if my girlfriend did that for me and would have no problem dropping any plans that may have been made. Link to comment
twentiesgirl86 Posted August 23, 2011 Share Posted August 23, 2011 I don't see anything wrong with it. If a guy I've been dating was waiting for me after work, I'd be surprised and thrilled. Link to comment
stuka80 Posted August 24, 2011 Share Posted August 24, 2011 not creepy at all, especially since you're his gf. if my gf did that i'd be extremely happy and flattered Link to comment
banal Posted August 24, 2011 Share Posted August 24, 2011 My ex did this to me once, right before she was to leave on vacation, and I was thrilled. We had already said goodbye the day before. As I was leaving work I saw a familiar license plate in the parking lot. She 'kidnapped' me and we went out to lunch together. Link to comment
MakeItCount Posted August 24, 2011 Share Posted August 24, 2011 Agreed with everyone. If it's an established relationship and he does a lot of initiating contact etc, I'd be so happy if my gf did that. If she's super needy and I'm getting sick of her contacting me all the time, I'd find it annoying. Gauge your dynamic and go from there. Link to comment
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