OahuGrown808 Posted August 18, 2011 Share Posted August 18, 2011 So you all have probably read countless threads with similar questions, but I feel some kind words and advice will do me some good. Like the title says, I'm 22 going on 23 and have yet to go on a date or even kiss a girl. A majority of my friends have all had girlfriends throughout high school, and are on their second or third relationship. To make things even more weird, they have all lost their virginity, leaving me as the last inexperienced guy in my friend circle. They aren't * * * * * s about it, but sometimes I feel a little out of the loop, you know? Anyway, I'm about to graduate from college and I can't help but feel some pressure to date; I've heard it's tough to meet people outside of college. To top it all off, I feel like I've missed a part of my life by not experiencing a relationship in high school, leaving me at a disadvantage in the future. Are any of these fears legitimate? Furthermore, I do interact with a lot of girls in my classes and workplace, but nothing ever goes further than friendship. They are either taken, or not interested - at least that's the vibe I get. I haven't actually tried to ask a girl out yet, which I know sets me up to fail 100% of the time. But The thing is that I would be more than happy to take a shot if they would just give me some sort of sign or hint. Also, I've already tried the club scene and it just doesn't feel right. I'm confident that I wont find the right kind of girl at that kind of place. I have my schooling in order, work two jobs, have a good sense of humor, and I'm not hideous. What gives? Thanks in advance Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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