quick update/few more questions

[Amannamederic]

Ok so after texting me to say happy birthday and i love you we had talked and things went well, she said she would text me later on but didnt because her boyfriend was over. So today i texted her and she responded sounding happy as usual so we made small talk and i asked what she was up to for the day, i was thinking shed say she was spending another day with her boyfriend, but all she said was i dunno. So i sat back and thought for a second about what to say before typing up "it sounds like you have plans with him to me haha" and she said no i dont want to see him i sort of dont want to get sick of him you know?

 

This isnt the first time shes said weird things or sounded less than happy over this guy. Yesterday the subject of how much he loved her came up because he had a habit of yelling at her really really badly but hasnt recently, so i said "its easy to change when you give him so much love" to which she said "yeah i guess". Ive asked people whether or not shes out of love with me but nobody will answer me straight up (seriously i cant get a no she doesnt out of ANYBODY) I've given her a few weeks at a time of NC and only responded when she sent me a message that seemed to want a response. Im doing this very carefully since 3 years in highschool is an achievement in its own and im not ready to give it up. Im thinking over everything i say and acting friendly, but non-caring as much as possible but mostly it boils down to simple conversation. Any help on what to do next or opinions on what shes feeling would be even better this site hasnt failed me yet.

 

-Eric

[twiggs]

Dude, I feel for you, almost in the same position. Ex is with another dude who makes some real poor choices. I find that your better off not asking questions to her friends, because we who have "hope" tend to take each word into full context. We may get excited for some seriouslly small reason, and in the end we often get our hopes up for nothing. Play it cool and try not to get to excited until the egg actually hatches