the temptation to comtact the ex

[luvsomeone333]

It has been almost 5 months with no contact of the ex... it has been ...in all honesty ...really hard to keep. But I've kept my promise n I haven't contacted him since....but lately all I want to do is come back to him..I miss him ..I don't know why I do ...his a horrible person ...sigh ..the good memories of him keep flooding back ..in my dreams I keep seeing him ...is this normal? To miss him still? After 5 months ...I've even tried dating n that failed ... I can't get over the Guy that I dated cause he left me hanging n I ended up breaking it up cause he didn't have the balls to do it > ...grr why am I so obsessed? Why am I so obsessed over the one Guy I dated that didn't work out ? ?

[Sweetkisses22]

I could ask the same question. In still in love with someone who could care less if I lived or died.

[ChellyV]

i guess it is normal. but please make sure you are not like this everyday. time will come you will just completely get tired of hoping, feeling, thinking of him. be optimistic. you will reach that point.

decide to want to have a new life. only you can make it happen, not people or circumstances.

[peaceOfmind78]

not to steal the post, but i'm having the same struggle as well. Lately, I've been tempted to contact him just to see how he's doing. I heard through co-workers that he's been out sick for 2 weeks. wonder if I'm making it awkward at work or just me. I want to break the ice. grr.

[Zuri]

Last night was only night 3 of NC and the urge to call my ex was awful. This is one of the reason i have insomnia, I bet. I want to know if he misses me or if he wants me to call. Well, my heart does. I can't wait until I get to the point in which I don't care if he misses me or doesn't miss me. I can't wait to be free of him!

[Zuri]

Btw. Five months is like WOW to me.