Prachi_Sri01 Posted June 14, 2011 Share Posted June 14, 2011 Hi I am just 3 weeks married...My husband is from Similar culture, background , language everything. But still I am not happy.... ](*,) What is troubling me the most is... He talks on phone for hours... Not woth any girl etc. He probably talks to his family like his sis mom uncle,etc. But he closes the door and talks. He never makes me a part of his conversations. He doesn't share anything abt his family to me. though its an arranged marriage, I feel very very insulted........ I spoke to him once or twice abt it, he dint reply properly. He asked me to be patient. He says he doesn't open to anyone very soon. Please advice. At night he comes close to me and looks very natural, but I feel cheated. I feel as if he is showing things off to me. It makes me feel worse............. Really worse.:sad: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FathomFear Posted June 14, 2011 Share Posted June 14, 2011 How well did you know him prior to the arranged marriage? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DN Posted June 14, 2011 Share Posted June 14, 2011 I think three weeks is a little early under the circumstances. I suggest giving him a little time. Do you include him when you talk to your family and/or tell him things about them? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xiRoCb294 Posted June 14, 2011 Share Posted June 14, 2011 Does he hide anything else from you? Do you two communicate well? How well do you know him? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Prachi_Sri01 Posted June 15, 2011 Author Share Posted June 15, 2011 I think three weeks is a little early under the circumstances. I suggest giving him a little time. Do you include him when you talk to your family and/or tell him things about them? I dont have much things to tell to him... And of course I never lock the door and talk inside that door to my relatives. I dont know him before marriage. Since its an arranged marriage, I knew him just for 2 mths before getting married Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mandym555 Posted June 15, 2011 Share Posted June 15, 2011 Do one thing talk to his relatives whom he talks to know if he is speaking truth because there might have been some other reasons as well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DN Posted June 15, 2011 Share Posted June 15, 2011 I dont have much things to tell to him... And of course I never lock the door and talk inside that door to my relatives. I dont know him before marriage. Since its an arranged marriage, I knew him just for 2 mths before getting marriedI think it is best to wait a little while and get to know him well and then bring it up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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