Gauchori Posted August 12, 2004 Share Posted August 12, 2004 Hello there. Can someone please tell me how to get this off me. I very good friend of mine has killed herself today. She actually had Brain cancer but she wanted to take things in her own way. Before she killed herself she talked to me and told me that she loved me than she sign off. Wee talked by AIM. Than she... kileed herself. What shoulkd I do to get her off my head?!?!?? I always think about her!! Link to comment
losinghope Posted August 12, 2004 Share Posted August 12, 2004 Sorry to hear of your friend's loss. There's no easy way of getting rid of the pain. Try to surround yourself with friends and family. Link to comment
Gauchori Posted August 12, 2004 Author Share Posted August 12, 2004 -Hello there. Wanna be my friend?!- is that what u mean? By the way, I live in kendall. Good knowing ya. (I guess) So thats it? just live with the pain is that what u mean? Link to comment
dpressedone89 Posted August 12, 2004 Share Posted August 12, 2004 wow im truly sorry man, i know having someone you care for take their own life causes extreme pain and anguish. the best thing to do is to be around people, in open environment and above all DO NOT KEEP IT INSIDE talk to someone, anyone, talk to me add me to ur msn ill be your friend i dont know anyway to make the pain go away but drink lots of water and talk it out with people. sTiTcHeS aka The Antihero Link to comment
ang3l2004 Posted August 12, 2004 Share Posted August 12, 2004 I am so sorry about the loss of your friend and I hope everything goes well with you,Just remember you will never forget your friend you will always have the memories and it must be really hard right now and once again im so sorry that this happened.It is going to be hard not to think about this at first it will get easier but you will never forget her,Just keep yourself busy for right now and keep yourself around your friends and family and come on here and post all your feelings and thoughts and mabe that can help you a little bit.I wish you the best of luck and I hope things get better soon. Link to comment
losinghope Posted August 12, 2004 Share Posted August 12, 2004 of course, i would love to be your friend. But unfortunately i don't know how you would be able to stop thinking about her especially since you guys were close. how long ago did this happen? With time gradually you would be able to not think of her that much. Sorry if i wasn't helpful. Hope you feel better. Link to comment
Gauchori Posted August 12, 2004 Author Share Posted August 12, 2004 It happed today alround 1:00Pm eastern time Link to comment
losinghope Posted August 12, 2004 Share Posted August 12, 2004 wow, it's the first day. It's still a shock in your body. You are gonna go through the whole grieving process. It's really tough, i know. When my grandmoher passed away, i felt a little better after the funeral because i felt a sense of closure. maybe after the funeral, you get more closure and you'll begin to accept what happened. There's nothing wrong with crying alot and letting it all out, it's better than keeping it in. We're all here for you... Link to comment
Gauchori Posted August 12, 2004 Author Share Posted August 12, 2004 well... its the first day and night and I still can't smile Link to comment
i_hate_the_world47 Posted August 12, 2004 Share Posted August 12, 2004 fisrt of let me say igive you my deepest apologies about your friends death.I know how it feels to lose a friend in this horrible way.I know that our feeling alot of pain and i agree with dpressedone89.You need to talk this out.If you keep it bottled up you will slowly break down.Maybe you could talk to a friend or family member,or ever go to counseling or a therapist.I hope everything works well and god bless. ~Meagan~ Link to comment
Gauchori Posted August 12, 2004 Author Share Posted August 12, 2004 Thanks but what crushes me the most is that she told me that she loved me before she did so. Link to comment
Gauchori Posted August 12, 2004 Author Share Posted August 12, 2004 And worst of all is that not long ago another friend at school was killed by another person. Link to comment
i_hate_the_world47 Posted August 12, 2004 Share Posted August 12, 2004 I know i am so sorry.But at least she loved you enough to say goodbye before she did it.Maybe she didnt actualy say goodbye but she did in her own way. ~Meagan~ Link to comment
losinghope Posted August 12, 2004 Share Posted August 12, 2004 wow, sounds like you've been through alot sweetheart. I really recommend seeing a psychologist/therapist/councellor. I'm seeing one right now (different reasons) and i feel alittle better. That's just my opinion though. Link to comment
Gauchori Posted August 12, 2004 Author Share Posted August 12, 2004 and if you wanna her more I'll keep going. Some time now ago, since my one of my uncle is a police; he was almost killed by a gun shoot very close to his head. It only touched him, didn't hit the sull. Link to comment
redline052 Posted August 12, 2004 Share Posted August 12, 2004 Wow, yea bro you been through a lot. Along with that therapist, call a psycic, its sounds like you got cursed somtime in your life Link to comment
Gauchori Posted August 12, 2004 Author Share Posted August 12, 2004 want me to keep going? Another uncle of mine years ago that I had lived with died of cancer. And months a go an adult friend died as well. Whats up with that? are you people gonna just tell me to be happy? Link to comment
Gauchori Posted August 12, 2004 Author Share Posted August 12, 2004 Oh! by the way... don't ask me how many animals have I seen died. That will just be a waste of time. Link to comment
mahlina Posted August 12, 2004 Share Posted August 12, 2004 I'm sorry Gauchori, I really am. The best thing that you can do for now, is to talk it all out. Let it all out. Vent out your pain, frustrations, and emotions. We're here to help. I am so sorry. I have experience in this situation as well. It's tough to lose a person that you cared for and loved. It's tough to see them walk out of your life like that. Half of the times, it's probably because they're in so much pain that that's their ultimate answer. Not that it's the right choice, but it's because they feel so much torment. My heart goes out to her family, and as well as you. Please feel free to vent okay? You're doing a good job by letting your emotions out. That's the key thing. I know how it feels. *hugs*-Mahlina Link to comment
bruind Posted August 12, 2004 Share Posted August 12, 2004 my condolensces. yeah, at this time, after what has hapenned, there's really no reason for you to be happy. but surely things will get better. just like what some say, there's always a bright light at the end of every dark tunnel. sunshine after the long darkness of night. (i myself has been going through a lot lately, but i try hard not to let those problems and events overcome, or else i'd lose my mind.) guess we can be friends huh... share the sorrows of each other. feel free to pm me if u need someone to talk to, or just to listen to things will be better. let's not lose hope Link to comment
mtastic Posted August 13, 2004 Share Posted August 13, 2004 Gauchori, I'm deeply sorry. I know it hurts deeply. I wish I could help more but all I can say is to echo everybody elses her. The best thing you can do is talk about it right now, we're all here to listen if you need us, feel free to post or PM me if you want to talk. Best of luck to you, mtastic Link to comment
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