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Does anyone like mild bondage or sexual "kinks"?


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Just an informal survey to get a rough idea of how alone I am in this:

Does anyone else besides me ever fantasize about getting tied up, or tying your partner up? How many have done it?

 

I really enjoy getting tied up, like to a headboard, and I also enjoy light spankings sometimes. To me, it is ironically liberating to hand over all of my power to my partner, as I get to explore my sexual boundaries while making sure that he is enjoying and approving of every activity. Sometimes I just find it fun to be a little naughty!

 

However, I'm not exactly sure how many other people enjoy this kind of thing. I have seen someone else on here who enjoys feet, a kink that I do not share, but I was wondering, am I relatively alone in liking light bondage or S&M? Do any other people have fetishes of any sort, or is that pretty obscure? Thanks!

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I personally don't like kinky stuff (or sexual stuff at all - yes I'm male, go figure ), but I can assure you that you're not alone.

 

There are so many people (I haven't met any, but I'd say they're out there) that like to talk and do kinky stuff. Just look at the internet. Half of it is porn, the other half are ads (and a little bit that's also there is actual information), and being a very internet-active person, I know that there are no boundaries. People will put anything on the net and they do it in real life.

 

So no, you're not alone.

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PARISIAN,

I ABSOLUTELY LOVE IT, I WOULDN'T HAVE IT ANY OTHER WAY. I AM NOT QUITE SURE OF WHEN I REALIZED I LIKE IT, BUT BEING TIED UP IS DEFINITELY A TURN ON! I LIKE TO BE CALLED NAMES AND I LIKE TO BE SPANKED. SO NO YOUR ARE NOT THE ONLY ONE OUT THERE. I LIKE MY MAN TO HAVE CONTROL SOMETIMES, BUT ALSO VICE VERSA IS A TURN ON TOO, WHERE I CAN HAVE MY WAY WITH MY MAN. SO HAVE FUN!

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I actually enjoy being tied up too. Not many people would know that about me because I'm sort of really shy. My friends would be really surprised to learn this about me.

 

I didn't really know that I liked it so much until my boyfriend came along. He's the first guy I've ever been sexual with, so he asked if I would be willing to try it, so I did.

 

We have tried it once so far & I really liked it. It was quite a turn on having him tie me up. I'm not really into anything else like that, at least as far as I'm aware. Being tied up is kind of all I'm really into when it comes to being kinky.

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Dont think theres anything wrong with it if both partners agree. I havent tried it yet, but the idea of tieing the girl up, or getting tied up sounds like it can be fun. For me, i like the mixture of being in control and not being in control. As long as u use things like safety words and are both sensible it will all be a bit of fun.

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Wow what a cool topic.

 

Well I can honestly say I have been tied up and I have tied up my ex girlfriends. I also would like to add one thing that maybe you never tried. Not only to tie up your partner but put a blindfold on them as well. Then goto town on their body. I know I loved it when my ex used to tie me up and get all kinky on me.

 

Well there are alot of other things but, I wont be sharing them with you all yet.

 

 

Great topic Parisian!

 

Hubman 8)

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lets list what I am ok with doing:

 

tying up to headboard

binding hands

neck leash

handcuffs

tied up suspension

 

leather appearal

latex appearal

doing it with body paint

 

some minor injury inflicting. biting clawing spanking

hot wax and ice

some domination, maybe some whip

 

Sensual sex

blindfolds

in a bathtub

on the beach

bed of roses

in field of flowers

nothing but foreplay / caressing her body / admiring her beauty

 

 

so eh. im very open to many things. at times, I just want to screw a chick so hard and fast. other times i want to be romantic.

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this is a very interesting topic...

 

If my partner would let me, them I'm definitely down with it...

 

This is what I would do...

Spank her a bit,

nibble on her breast,

nibble on her butt,

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thats about it...I would NOT enjoy getting spank, but I wouldn't mind getting tied up.

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Well I love being bitten, not hard,just lightly, just around my neck and under my breasts... it sends shivers down me every where!

 

I dont mind being tied up, and I love being submissive... when im over powered and stuff.

 

how far below the breast? an inch under the nipple?

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