eugghhhh worst day yet!

[f1r3f1y3]

urghhhhhh I am having the worst day since the breakup a month ago.

 

Work crap

Son naughty

Had to tell my girlfriend we couldn't talk anymore

 

Then I start texting my ex wife about arrangements for son and we somehow get onto how crap the sex was between us. She just goes mental at me and says I was the worst sex she ever had then I said "It seems to be working well since you left".

 

Yuk.. I have had no sex since she left at all barely even by myself.

 

Clearly she doesn't even think her cheating was that bad. After I calmed down I said this:

 

"I do love you but we didn't work in bed, poor communication and understanding. No chemistry. Right?"

"I know you'd like to blame me for that but no-one is to blame, we just didn't work"

"I like to do things you don't etc etc"

"Can we not just agree we didn't work in bed, and that's why it all failed?"

"It's pointless if we argue about it, it just hurts us both more"

"The sex was crap for me too you know, I had needs that you didn't fill too"

"that's why i understand"

"You shouldn't have had sex with other people though."

 

her reply:

 

"Whateverrrr"

 

She doesn't actually believe what she did was wrong.

 

Why am I even bothering talking to this girl other than about our son.

 

Eruughhhhhh, awful day

[Ms Darcy]

I think the lesson here is to not talk to her about non essential stuff.

[Ms Darcy]

The lesson is to avoid talking about non essential stuff.

[f1r3f1y3]

Got it Ms Darcy, she drives me mad when I talk to her. After an hour of our conversation finishing I have already calmed down.

 

I have given up my girlfriend outlet too which isn't helping, but I know it's the right thing to do.

 

She's such a crazy person, I know when i am in a healthy relationship I will look back at this time and wonder what the heck i was thinking!