Vivyanne Posted July 31, 2010 Share Posted July 31, 2010 I found out my husband masturbating when I'm not at home and lie to me when I ask about the truth . And, he admit after when I show the history browser that all he surf for a day. He promised me he will never do that but he did it and broke the promise which caused me mad with him so badly with no words almost a week in separate bed. He still stand for a forgiveness from me but I couldn't forgive him... Am I overact to get angry for that ? Link to comment
DN Posted July 31, 2010 Share Posted July 31, 2010 Yes, you are overreacting - he should never had made that promise and it was unreasonable to ask him to make it. Link to comment
annie24 Posted July 31, 2010 Share Posted July 31, 2010 Did you ask him why he is mastrubating? How often do you two make love? Maybe he could use more of it? Link to comment
Vivyanne Posted July 31, 2010 Author Share Posted July 31, 2010 really ? It's a normal for man to masturbating when they did have sex with their wife ? But, I get so upset to know he is masturbating which make me feel I'm not satisfy him ?! Link to comment
Vivyanne Posted July 31, 2010 Author Share Posted July 31, 2010 yes , I did ask him and his answer is "Self Satisfaction" which make me think I can't satisfy him . Link to comment
DN Posted July 31, 2010 Share Posted July 31, 2010 really ? It's a normal for man to masturbating when they did have sex with their wife ? But, I get so upset to know he is masturbating which make me feel I'm not satisfy him ?!Yes, it is very normal. Link to comment
Vivyanne Posted July 31, 2010 Author Share Posted July 31, 2010 3days we had sex for the past week and is happen just when this week started . Link to comment
DN Posted July 31, 2010 Share Posted July 31, 2010 It is not unusual for a lot of men (and women) to masturbate daily whether they have had sex or not. Link to comment
Vivyanne Posted July 31, 2010 Author Share Posted July 31, 2010 Dear bungalo , thanks for the article . But , how to overcome my feeling on upset ... Link to comment
RedDress Posted July 31, 2010 Share Posted July 31, 2010 I agree with what's been said. It's completely normal to masterbate while in a relationship (or married) and it has nothing to do with you. Asking him not to is completely unreasonable. How do you get over your feelings of being upset? By realizing that it's about your own insecurity. That it has nothing to do with how attractive you are or how much you satisfy him. That even if you were Angelina Jolie and had sex with him twice a day - he'd still probably masterbate just because it's fun and it's different. Think about it... why does it upset you? Link to comment
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