I Want My Ex Back With Me. Please Help

[Courage13]

Hi everyone. To get everything straight i am 14. Well right now i can kind of stuck. See for 3 months i was with this really great guy. We both loved eachother, but one thingb that was in the way is that he went to the high school and i was still in my last year in junior high. It was hard seeing eachother but nothing stopped us from seeing eachother after school and on the weekends. I gave him my first kiss and so did he like we gave eachother something special. But all of a sudden he broke up with me and said that it was hard for us to be together becasue we didn't see eachother very much because we went to different grade schools (me 8th and him 9th). I was fine and understood were he was coming from. For one month i was doing fine. I didn't see him at all of course until that Friday night. All my friends go to a dance or like a club kind of and i saw him again. I started to feel the same why I did when we were going out. I fell in love with him again. I told my best friend. She was very helpful and told me she would talk to him. Well he doesn't have feelings for me and he wouldn't even dance with me at the next dance. I felt horrible and I kept looking at him and he was around his friends. Other of my friends wanted to talk with him about my feelings but i didn't want to make anything worse than it might be. I am also very lonely because all my friends have someone to be with and i don't and still want the person who i loved for 3 months.

 

I will get to see him again in school. This year we will be going to the same school and might have some of the same classes like music and math. I would really like to get together with him again at any coast. Please tell me what to do. Thank you for your time.

[Mercutio]

I know things seem pretty bad right now, but you need to stop and realize that it isn't fair to someone else to do something they don't want to do. Even if that thing is to be with you. Let your love go, and give everyone else a chance.

 

I just ended things with my high-school sweetheart after a great many years together, and the ache I feel is probably not unlike yours... but if you were truly in love, and he wasn't, be glad that it ended early, and that you didn't spend long in a one-sided relationship.

 

Good luck in your life.

[baby1121607306432]

Almost something like that happen to me. I was dating this really cute guy when I was in 7th grade and he was in 9th grade. We were together for 3months then he broke up with me for the same reason. I know it really hurts at first but you have to realize that it is time to let go. See that is something that just couldn't get through my head cuz I was always hoping that we would get back together. It took me like 2 years to get over him cuz I thought he was the most amazing guy ever and I wouldn't find nobody else like him. I was so stuck on him. I now know that I was wrong. There are plenty of great guys out there. There is always somebody better out there. Time is the key. Just give yourself time to find somebody. Let love come to you cuz when you least expect it , it will come.

[Man_Of_Purpose]

Let Go! I know that it is hard but you must "let go". Work on improving yourself. Use this situation as a stepping stone for your next relationship.

 

If you need anymore advice (hit me up on yahoo messenger).

 

 

Good Luck!!

MOP

[loverleah1]

dont worry bout getting back w/ your ex! enjoy being singal! live life while u can cuz were not all going 2 b here in 50 yrs...well mayb some of us but not most!