blue227 Posted May 10, 2010 Share Posted May 10, 2010 After 4 months of cutting me off and abandoning me from his life, without even the common courtesy of an explanation, why would he go out of his way to text me TWICE at 4am, and then actually call my phone number asking me to "come over" if he's just going to STAND ME UP? Especially after making me drive 3 hours to see him? Does he realize how much of a vicious and cruel jerk he's become? I'm not his doormat. Well in this case, onbiously i was. But even if he was drunk, that's not a nexcuse t ostand me up. Just because you're drunk, doesnt mean you stand people up just one hour later. The worst part was when i arrived, I saw his ex's car o nthe driveway! What an awful feeling after 4 months of no contact. He's a total manipulator. He's bipolar type 1, and unmedicated, but i dont think it has anything to do with being a crule jerk. He's 18. I wasnt even coming to hook-up. I was coming to get some closure, and find out why you disappeared with no explanation for 4 months like a total a-hole. HE chose to call ME. HE chose to text ME! I dont think you realize hiow long 4 months of "no contact" is? After 4 months, he should have drove to see me, and apologize for the way you left things. I was stupid enough to answer his call, but everytime I try to "move on" he ends up contacting me out of the blue and bring me back to square one. During those 4 months of 100% "no contact", he ignored me on Valentines day, Eastr, and my birthday. Plus, he didnt invite me to his 18th birthday. I'll never have that opportunity again in my lifetime. That's a horrible and rotten thing to do. He shouldnt have asked me to drive ALL THAT WAY (3 hours) and then IGNORE my phone calls and text messages while I was sitting on his driveway. He asked me to come! How can he change your mind in less than an hour? He didnt even bother to apologize the next day for the way he treated me! I'm really upset and frustrated. Why would someone do that? I dont think being "drunk" is the answer. I want my $25 in gas money back and the 3 hours of MY LIFE that he made me waste. Unfortunately, he never takes responsibility for his actions. He will blame all of this on me, and it will somehow be my fault that HE stood me up. And you just KNOW that 6 months from now he's gonna call again and pretend like nothings happened. By that time, it would have been a year since ive seen him. The only good thing is that I was able to finally send him the huge 20-page emai, which i had written during the 4 long months of "no contact." I promised iwould send it to him should he ever contact me again. He neevr responded to that either. But i got some kind of closure, even if he didnt read it. Link to comment
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