alfie Posted May 6, 2010 Share Posted May 6, 2010 I have been married for nearly 3 years. If im honest its not been that great. My wife is from another part of the world and has not treat me very good. I pay all the bills in our home on time, run a business and try to keep the house clean and tidy. With little help from her. My wife is working and has some good money coming in but very rarly helps me with any bills, i have to ask her for money, she always answers i will help you soon, but hardly ever does and spends her money on mostly rubbish. Please dont get me wrong i earn more money than her so i dont expect her to pay every bill, but wouldnt mind a little help with things. On top of that she is bad to me sometimes. Again i am wrong somtimes, but shouting at me in front of my freinds, trying to break my things etc is not on in my eyes. So heres my problem. I recently and accidently started talking with a girl from the same part of the world as my wife. Im really taken back with how nice she is to me, even though she knows im married. I feel myself getting attracted to her more and more. My wife asked me if im talking with anyone online, i did not lie and said yes. She wanted to know who but i wont tell her as i fear she and her friend will terrorise this lovely girl. To make matters worse im finding myself wanting to meet her for real. we talk everyday (when my wifes not there) And i feel like i owe it to her to meet her and i really want too. I always pay for all the plane tickets to go back to my wifes home. She just wastes her money on mostly rubbish and says she will help me but never does. Any way this time i have just bought myself a plane ticket as i have had enough and i have the intention to catch up with this girl if we are still in touch by the time i fly in 4 months. My wife is insisting that ive cheated on her or plan to and i havnt done anything wrong yet. but as i say if she carrys on treating me the way she has i will, without any guilt. I feel really bad for both girls i dont want my wife hurting (even though she has scared me so many time) and i dont want this the other girl getting any problems from my wife and her freinds, i dont know what i should do. Can anyone offer any advice? Sorry for the long thread. Thanks in advance Link to comment
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