asthesparrow Posted May 1, 2010 Share Posted May 1, 2010 So I met a cute and charming guy a year ago, and we became friends very quickly... We're still quite close and I am really excited to be seeing him soon after 3 months apart... Well when we met our relationship was far from wholesome, and for the past year we were both in on/off relationships so I tried to distance myself from him because the temptation was far too strong... There were, shamefully, periods where we saw eachother more often than we saw our SO's. Well, now for 5 months he has been single, as his SO cheated on him, and I left my SO 2 months ago basically for physical abuse among other things. I had been checked-out of that r/ship for a lot longer than 2 months, and I am over it.. This is not about needing love or a replacement.. This is simply a guy I have wanted for a very very long time and vice versa... So he's been undoubtedly in "friendzone" for a long time... but I know deep down we are both aware of the spark... I don't think either of us are keen on a relationship anytime soon, so do you think it is a bad idea to dabble outside the friendzone for awhile, considering it would basically be, well, to test that "spark" that has lingered for a year+ now... Link to comment
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