Head nod check- would you leave?

[MissMacaroni]

Let's say you're in a relationship with someone and the following facts apply:

 

He referred to you as "a nice piece of trim" to a third party

 

He went to a strip club to piss you off

 

You find out about his pre-relationship sexual history, which includes blacking out while choking a girl during sex, arranging a threesome with his best friend, and admitting he was had sex with so many random "skanks" that he was worried about getting one of them pregnant (i.e. he didn't use protection)

 

He activated a GPS locator on your cell phone

 

You have caught him snooping through your email twice and phone once

 

During an argument, he said he was going to make the breakup as difficult as possible for you and to prepare for war

 

He left you stranded, drunk, on the Vegas strip with no wallet and no phone.

 

How fast do you leave him?

[jilki]

I'd be running out of that relationship as if i was being chased.

 

I put up with some crap from my boyfriend but there would be NO way i'd stick around for that.

 

If this is your boyfriend, you deserve better.

[asthesparrow]

I leave yesterday.

[eggplant47]

After the #3- he'd never hear from me again. I'm hoping you've decided it's over.

[OntheWire]

Well... if you don't draw the line there, then where *would* you draw the line?

[Jd1983]

I would have already been gone.

 

My question is: Why are YOU still there?

[Ihavetissues]

I'm not sure that is the greatness person to be in a relationship with.

 

How long you actually been with him?

[MissMacaroni]

Thanks, all.

 

We've been married for 4 months and all this stuff happened, or I found out about, since then.

 

He's away for business for a few months, so I am taking the opportunity to burn rubber. I moved accross country to be with him...we dated for a few months, then went long distance for a while. He hid himself pretty well, and I'll admit there were red flags I chose to ignore or excuse.

 

The messed up thing is I didn't even write the most horrible crap he's pulled. Sometimes I think it's really affected my judgement, so I wanted to hear what you all would say to the relatively minor offenses.

[geekgirl4]

I would have left at #3. Why are you still with him? Start putting the divorce papers in play!

[Mustachio]

If those are the minor offenses, I cant even imagine what the major offenses are...

 

Some of those would be excusable to me... but do you really trust him? He snoops through your emails, left you stranded... could you ever trust him?