bravebird Posted April 9, 2010 Share Posted April 9, 2010 It read, "How's your week going?" Why is this such a huge deal to me? I should just reply that it's going fine and let that be that. Eventually, he will leave me alone if he's really over the idea of a relationship, right? I just don't think that dumpers genuinely want to be friends right after the breakup. I know my ex cares a great deal for me and doesn't want me out of his life completely, but am I doing a disservice to myself if I write back? I don't know. Help. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PrincessBOT Posted April 9, 2010 Share Posted April 9, 2010 If you're like me you will write back, or will try really hard not to write back then will get so anxious and then you write back. If you have not told him not to contact you and you have neither decided to go NC or told him you were going NC than I think its okay to respond if and until you feel you need to cut off contact. Take it at face value, How is your week going is how is your week going not I want you back. I don't know your story , but it sound like it's going the friend route. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
prada Posted April 9, 2010 Share Posted April 9, 2010 i wouldnt reply if i were you. but then again, i dont know the story so i cant give my opinion. (im a kinda NC person-- help u heal faster keeps hope far away) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bravebird Posted April 9, 2010 Author Share Posted April 9, 2010 i replied and kept it short and simple. i think that i will have to explicitly announce NC at some point. we'll see. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
prada Posted April 9, 2010 Share Posted April 9, 2010 keep strong. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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