Girlfriend cheated

[tekno]

how old are you. call your dad or a smart older male figure in your life and watch them tell you to ditch her. tell them the whole strory. im serious

[AlphaFemme]

I do love her and she really does have the potential to be a wonderful person.

 

I do love her. This is the person that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with.

 

i'm wondering if you love yourself enough. you talk about your past mistakes like they factor in here; they do not. you aren't buying a fixer house. you deserve a whole person. more importantly, you deserve to recognize that if she does change, it won't be for you-- and she'll be facing a lifetime of slip-ups. good luck, friend.