Does Size Matter?

[Doc_Phil]

Now this is a questions to the ladies, does the size of a man's penis really matter? i've heard that women don't care as long as they kno how to use it, is that true? now i'll be modest ain't large like somemen i am probably under average for someone my age. so please is it true ?

[Freak of nature]

Yeah, I have the same question. Do you really care about his length? Well, I think they definitively care about the girth, though. How do you measure the girth? What would be a "normal" girth for a 17 yr old?

[Doc_Phil]

Bra man i don't know what the 'normal' girth or lenght for a male our age is. maybe some one who knows can tells us bra.

[neva_black_n_white]

size really doesnt matter, in my opinion anyway, i think there is to a degree where people will be picky, but lets face it a man has what a man has, i know its not as significant but i bet men have a good look at a womans chest size as well, and its often they are as self conscious about this as you are with your man hood, personally i see it as something pretty personal to be getting it out anyway and by that time if they have seriously got a negative opinion because of size is that the kind of woman you want?

 

just curious?

 

kel

[Meow18]

i think guys care too much about that. What would happen if every girl told you that they want their guy to have a 10 inch long penis??? Thats like rare.. but what if thats the answer you got? What could you do about it? You got what you got, there's no need to worry about whether its big enough or not. I can't say whether I prefer length over width because I'm a virgin.. but I can say that you will get many different answers, it justs depends on what a certain girl likes. I hear that sometimes if a guy is too long, it can cause pain for the girl.. I also hear that the size doesn't matter, its how you use it. Just be grateful for what you got. Look at it this way, at least you got one.

[tiger_lilies]

I'd have to say that size certainly matters for some women. But the bigger doesn't necassarily mean better. It's definitly how you use it!! lol.

But if you are looking for inches, I'd say anything less than 5 to 6 inches erect is a bit dissappointing...but if you know how to work it then that can make up for the difference.

 

Too big ones...say over 8 inches can be dissappointing for men because I've heard that they are not able to go "deep" enough. Some women, over 8 inches might be painful. Some women bleed as a result of too large an instument. Hope this helps answer your question!

[Tinkerbell]

From what I gather, size really doesn't matter, as long as the guy has an idea of what he's doing. Besides, men can pleasure females in a large variety of ways, without even using their penis. As they say "It's not the size of the boat, it's the motion of the ocean!"

[neva_black_n_white]

all i know is that for your age 5 and a half/6 is pretty normal to have, its apparently the average id your wanting to compare against that, i think 18 is when pretty much every body part stops growing, so your going to have to work off of that if you want any answers.

 

what you have is what you have, right?

 

kel

[Tinkerbell]

Oh, and one more thing, here are the facts you were looking for:

 

Average soft (flaccid) penis length = 3.3 inches (8.4 cm)

 

Average erect length = 5.9 inches (15.0 cm). For men with a foreskin, this measurement is taken with the foreskin held back.

 

Average erect shaft girth (circumference) = 4.9 inches (12.4 cm)

[Freak of nature]

Well, at least I know that I, myself, have a good length. But, what do you mean by "Average erect shaft girth (circumference)"? How do you measure that?

[Rage]

get a tape measure or a bit of string and wrap it round!

 

What is the preferred size for a woman?! Please say around 7 inches

 

And i heard we don't stop growing down there till early twenties.....plenty of time yet boys

[Freak of nature]

Well, I know my length is ok anyway. You said "get a tape measure or a bit of string and wrap it round". Is it around the whole penis? or around just one section?

[Freak of nature]

Nevermind. I get it.

[Tide]

ok, size matters. it matters like boobs matter. yes, a smaller girl is GREAT, but some nice big round ones - that would be AWESOME! i'm sure people will reply saying i'm stupid and chuvinistic, but look around. what sells?

same with penises. i woman will love you for YOU. but a woman will love sex with you for your junk. it's deffinately a combo thing though - it has to be big and fat. not 12 inches and as big around as your finger, not 5 inches and as big around as your ankle. but if you're packin anywhere from 7-9 with a good 3 or 4 finger girth, you're deffinately the D-Cup supermodel of the mens' section. the crap part of that philosophy is that if a chick's lacking, she can get implants, but a guys' stuck with what he's got. i KNOW they have penis enlargements now, but have you ever seen the before and after pictures? it's like franken-phallus.

[birdie0013]

I simply see it as I wouldn't want a guy to judge me/turn me down because of my breast size, so I'm not going to do that to him.

It honestly depends on how close you and the girl are. If she's just out for sex and your size doesn't meet her standards, then yeah, she might not call back. But if you're together and you feel she really cares for you, she's not going to care. The first 2" of a woman are the most sensitive, so if you're over that (hard), you're good to go. Don't stress because confidence is the sexiest thing!!!!

[Rage]

 

 

I don't care about breast size ...Infact i think i actually prefer the smaller breasted lady, like.....

[neva_black_n_white]

i would just like to make applauds to rage on this one!! nicely said, for a woman of petite figure and breasts, you give me hope!!! (despite having an amazing boyfriend who has already proven the statement)! thanks!

 

kel

[laroxes]

Ask a girl this. First of all have her name 5 of the hottest guys she would like to go to bed with. Now ask her how many she would refuse if she found out they all had a 3" penis. If you use a penis as the way to measure a lover then maybe you should consider an elephant.

[The Morrigan]

I know I've answered this one many times it seems to be a common misconception that most girls want the bigger the better.

 

Speaking from experience, I'd far prefer a guy a little on the small side I won't have to worry about accomodating in any position, who knows what he's doing. Too big HURTS. That's right guys, even for experienced girls, too big hurts, especially lengthwise, because that's something you can't stretch much to make more room. There's a reason for an average - the average depth of a woman's vagina is about 3 inches, and simply stretches to accommodate more. Too much length and you may well find with a lot of girls many positions and full penetration are impossible as you come up against her cervix and she rears up, not in pleasure, but pain. And how about oral? Would you rather be of a size your girl can work her mouth around, or a size that she'll be intimidated by and have to be a professional sword swallower to work with? Sometimes what looks good in theory and in porn flicks just isn't quite so practical in real life positions.

 

Spend more time and effort on learning ways to explore a woman's body to stimulate all her senses and make the whole sexual act exciting and pleasurable for her than worrying about your size - and unless you're REALLY midget sized - you shouldn't have any complaints in that department!

[Luv_4_Life]

I have to agree with Morrigan....Very well said =D>.

 

Luv_4_Life

[GermanShephard]

Im 14 as u can see and i have an 4inch penis when im hard i havent gone threw puburty yet and i was wondering the same?

[GermanShephard]

im going to be 14 this month

[JonnyG]

U will be fine German Shepard. Nice to find som1 else at last who is under the average. Although by the sounds of it, if u have puberty to go through ( u have probably started), and your only 14, im sure u will grow some more before u finish, and probably bigger than the average as well.

[Rage]

i would just like to make applauds to rage on this one!! nicely said, for a woman of petite figure and breasts, you give me hope!!! (despite having an amazing boyfriend who has already proven the statement)! thanks!

 

kel

 

Cheers Kel ...Glad i give you hope, i'm sure alot of guys feel the same way i do too. I don't know what the big deal is about breast size anyway, i mean when you get past a certain age gravity is going to take effect if you are too big...so you are lucky

[Rage]

Yer i'm sure you will grow German Shephard...report back in five years