Freak of nature

Hey people. I've a question. I've seen a couple of posts about girls not being happy because they have hair in "there" and because their boyfriends noticed it. Do guys find that a turn off? I mean, do girls who engage in that kinda thing have to wax that off? Because I don't think I'd mind, lol.

Well, according to your description of the fight, I'd say it was about even too. But I have a question. Are there really girls that like guys who fight? I mean, if there are, I've never seen one, because they all think guys who fight are immature... So, what I'm trying to say is that even if she likes guys who fight, you shouldn't fight just because she's around. You should fight for respect, and nothing else. Fight for yourself, and maybe fight for others when their fight is unfair (a much bigger kid beating a smaller kid up...). Even then, it's better to fight as a means of self-defense, not just to kick some punk's rear end because of some stupid thing he said (unless they say something that includes your mother in it... I loose control when something like that happens, which isn't that often). Anyway, I just think it's strange for a girl to like a guy who gets into fights... Don't fight, 95% of the time it's only a waste of time...

I'd be a friend. What else can you do? I don't think she's there just for you to barge in and replace her bf... And the distancin, well, maybe that isn't such a bad idea either....

What's a good place to meet girls? In school, I don't think I've got a chance. I mean, I don't think I'm lacking too much in the looks department, because more than once I've caught a girl staring (that may not mean anything, though)... The problem is that when I get close to them so I can say hi and you know, trying to start a convo and introducing myself, they look away. So, is it that I just have something on my face? I dunno, I don't think I have anything freakish. I'm not so shy anymore (I used to be, but now I've surprised myself with what I can do...). And she's not the only one. I've said hi to lots of cute girls, but most of them, even though we've exchanged looks, I know they're taken (I see them talking about their bfs, etc). So, what happens that makes girls be repelled from me? For how long should I "know" a girl before asking her out (asking her to hang out with me on a weekend, etc.)? Would it be awkward if there was a girl I didn't know very well, and she didn't know me well either (if we knew each other's names and had a class together, but had never said much past the point of "hi"), and I asked her out? I dunno. Stuff's confusing... I know it's a lot of questions, but I wanna know... PS: it'd be great if someone told me from step 1 how it works. Please, I'm a rookie.

No, I won't stress about it. I just want to do it for fun... You know, it will help my confidence a lot. Thanks everyone for your advice.

I would like to look for girls during summer (just to improve my confidence, though... not like to marry them ). Is it ok to do that? If so, what's the best place to find girls that are 15-17 years old? I'm shy, though, but it's nothing out of this world... So, what would be good lines, just to like, say hi and compliments in order to gain confidence and maybe a "wanna hang out with us" and maybe even phone numbers?

Do it man. You can do it! The letter thing is a good idea. Dude, you can do it.

Hello? Does anyone have something to say?

Ok, I feel I just blew everything. I just went to the library in my school, and there was girl 2, and she was alone. She does seem to still be interested in me. But I decided I was going to wait for a chance to talk to girl 1 instead. I don't know if I'll ever see girl 1 on what's left of the year. Do you think I made the right choice? I don't, and I feel so dumb

Interesting responses. Oh, raven, I'm glad you like my name. I also think Silverchair rocks Well, anyone else have something to say?

Ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls (just kidding). I would like to know your opinion on who do you think, most of the time, is the one that "breaks up" in relationships: the guy, or the girl? I have heard so many stories that that lead me to think it's girls. You are welcome to disprove me if you want. Just post your opinion.

In my opinion you should go for it. If you wait as friends for too long then she will maybe become a good friend. If you go for it, then there is a chance you succeed. If not, well, then you could wait until you are a sophomore. Then, there is chance a freshman girl goes for you. I remember in my old school, girls would go for older guys. Then when they got to 9th grade they seemed to be more cool about the guys in their grade. Now that they are in 11th grade, they all finally seem to be the same age. It must be both because girls mature faster than guys, so they look for older looking guys, and because some guys are just too immature. Well, my point is, just go for it. If it doesn't work, then there will be plenty more chances when you are a sophomore.

Nevermind. I get it.

Hey Dr.Jekyl. Well, I don't know a lot about the matter. But I think that just saying "Hey, do you want to be my girl friend?" does sound a little stupid. Well, it also depends on the occasion. If you do it while you two are alone. You could get romantic. First Praise her. Tell her how beautiful she looks in that moment. Then tell her you like her more than a friend. After that, just tell her that you would like to be her boyfriend. If you are 100% sure she likes you back, then there shouldn't be any problems. If anyone has anything to say, you are welcome to disprove me. It's not like I am an expert in field.

Hey Dr.Jekyl. Well, I don't know a lot about the matter. But I think that just saying "Hey, do you want to be my girl friend?" does sound a little stupid. Well, it also depends on the occasion. If you do it while you two are alone. You could get romantic. First Praise her. Tell her how beautiful she looks in that moment. Then tell her you like her more than a friend. After that, just tell her that you would like to be her boyfriend. If you are 100% sure she likes you back, then there shouldn't be any problems. If anyone has anything to say, you are welcome to disprove me. It's not like I am an expert in telling every girl what they want to hear.