QTpie87 Posted May 19, 2004 Share Posted May 19, 2004 hi everyone. well it isn't a big problem but im still worried about it.. see i just got this boyfriend and he is like a total sweet heart. only thing is he is a bit older then i am and he has more experiance with things, like making out and other stuff like that and i am a bit worried to do anything with him because of it. see im almost 17 and i have only had one bf my whole life and so yeah. i just am basically worried that i wont know how to make out like he does or do other certin things similar to that. what do you think i should do about it, i mean i know i have to live with it and just learn, but i don't want him to think that i suck at kissing him or anything. We have already discussed that and everything and he says it doesn't bother him at all and he knows i haven't had that much experiance, but at the same time i feel bad about it and like maybe he is just saying that because he doesn't wanna make me uncomfortable or anything. well i know it's not the end of the world i just wanted to know if any of you who are a bit older then me have ever been in that situation and how it all worked out. im just worried. well thanks. bye, Qtpie87 Link to comment
Bubba_p Posted May 19, 2004 Share Posted May 19, 2004 well that is a problem but if you look at it, this could be a learning experince for you. you could learn from him and if you do break up, hopefully not for a long time, you will be more experince and pass on your knowledge to your next bf. if i were the guy i wouldn't mind because then have the chance to paint on a new canvas so to say. someone who does not have their own ideas about the perfect way of kissing. Link to comment
Screamindemonuk Posted May 21, 2004 Share Posted May 21, 2004 I can understand your concern but you need to relax about the experience issue. My girlfriend is 5 years older than me and I had the same thoughts as you. Turns out, I've taught her a few things and I didn't expect that. We all learn something from a relationship. Be yourself, if he cares for you, he will be more than happy to guide you and you won't even be aware he's doing it. Link to comment
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