ses Posted January 3, 2010 Share Posted January 3, 2010 Be honest please... During a fight with your significant other would you EVER sarcastically say, "What, are you stupid?" I just need a reality check. Link to comment
karvala Posted January 3, 2010 Share Posted January 3, 2010 No, I don't think I would. Link to comment
Tanzi Posted January 3, 2010 Share Posted January 3, 2010 Its hard to say ... it depends on what my SO had said to me first. We can all say things we regret in the heat of the moment. Link to comment
thebluest Posted January 3, 2010 Share Posted January 3, 2010 I would never say it with forethought, but sometimes we can't help being hurtful in the heat of the moment. My boyfriend and I both know that he's not stupid, but I can imagine myself saying that to him if he said something particularly uncharacteristically stupid. It'd be hurtful and uncalled for, but sometimes we're not completely in control of our dark sides. Link to comment
Crazyaboutdogs Posted January 3, 2010 Share Posted January 3, 2010 Nope. I would never tell anyone they are stupid. Link to comment
KG Posted January 3, 2010 Share Posted January 3, 2010 You can't unring that bell. No, ever. Link to comment
FortunateOne Posted January 3, 2010 Share Posted January 3, 2010 No, I have not and will not say that word or any other derogatory words to my SO. Link to comment
WomanWriter Posted January 3, 2010 Share Posted January 3, 2010 Be honest please... During a fight with your significant other would you EVER sarcastically say, "What, are you stupid?" I just need a reality check. Absolutely not. Not even as a joke. Deal breaker! Link to comment
FreedomRing Posted January 3, 2010 Share Posted January 3, 2010 Sigh. Yes, I always thought I would never do it, but I have in this relationship. And, actually, more then once. Not to make excuses, but I have an extremely short fuse and my normal reaction when upset is to lash out verbally. Not a good trait, and something I have high on my priority-need-to-improve list. Link to comment
Leighton Posted January 3, 2010 Share Posted January 3, 2010 No.. but I've said things like that. Not a good idea. Link to comment
_Asti_ Posted January 3, 2010 Share Posted January 3, 2010 Nope, we don't name call period. Link to comment
catfeeder Posted January 3, 2010 Share Posted January 3, 2010 No, it wouldn't even be on my radar. I wouldn't call anyone stupid, not even a stranger, much less someone I claim to love. Link to comment
Is it me Posted January 4, 2010 Share Posted January 4, 2010 Erm yes i have when me n hubby are in a full swing argument i have said it and he has said it to me but we don't see it as a bad thing. Now if was to call me thick then that would really get my back up so i suppose it depends on what certain words mean to each other as to whether they get said (does that make sense?) Link to comment
Jd1983 Posted January 4, 2010 Share Posted January 4, 2010 I have in the heat of the moment. I've even said worst things than that, but I don't mean them. I'm just angry. I know it's never a good thing. Link to comment
KevinR Posted January 4, 2010 Share Posted January 4, 2010 In heated arguments with my last ex, I may have, but I never meant it in any sort of seriousness. People can say mean or hurtful things during arguments, but as long as an apology is issued it isn't a big deal I don't think. Link to comment
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